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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbians not welcome at Gay Pride

638 replies

ZombieMumEB · 27/08/2022 14:01

This is horrifying. Women (lesbians) told by police they are going to be removed because abuse is being hurled at these women.

Police do nothing about the person shouting the abuse.

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OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:34

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:27

"What kind of nutjobbery have we reached when it's highly progressive to take your kids to a parade to celebrate adult babies".

I simply do not believe you've ever been to a pride parade or party if you think this is what pride is about.

Here you are. Adult babies at pride.

web.archive.org/web/20190707051212/www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-london-48893187

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www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3631413-In-plain-sight

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:34

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:25

This comes as no surprise to me as the overwhelming majority of lesbians and bisexual women are trans allies.

Can you explain why this is? Gender ideology is misogynistic and it also denies that homosexuality exists. Can you explain why so many lesbians are supportive of a homophobic misogynistic movement?

Not surprising, most transphobes are just homophobes with a new hobby.

So according to you, lesbians are homophobes. What makes you think that?

"Can you explain why so many lesbians are supportive of a homophobic misogynistic movement?"

The fact that so many lesbian support and are part of the movement for trans rights should tell you that it is in fact neither homophobic nor misogynistic. I suspect if you knew more lesbians you would know that too.

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:37

Cool, never seen one. Won't stop me taking my niece and nephew to march again with my football team next year. We had a great time. All families should take their kids to Pride parades, it's always so joyful 🏳️‍🌈

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:43

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:34

"Can you explain why so many lesbians are supportive of a homophobic misogynistic movement?"

The fact that so many lesbian support and are part of the movement for trans rights should tell you that it is in fact neither homophobic nor misogynistic. I suspect if you knew more lesbians you would know that too.

So are you saying this comment by male transperson Rachel McKinnon/Veronica Ivy isn't homophobic?

Lesbians not welcome at Gay Pride
AgnestaVipers · 29/08/2022 20:44

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This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

She wrote this:

I think over the last 20 years or so I'd forgotten that being a lesbian and refusing to contemplate intimate relationships with men is the most radical and provocative position a woman can take and one that a lot of straight women have only superficial tolerance of.

It's utterly true. Mumsnet is full of women who express casual lesbophobia, and wider society is, too. Any women swearing off men for any reason are reviled - firstly by men, but of course by straight women, too.

I thank god every day that I am a lesbian - I won the sexuality lottery. But my god, the shit we have to endure. 🙁

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:45

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:43

So are you saying this comment by male transperson Rachel McKinnon/Veronica Ivy isn't homophobic?

I've met couples where one is cis, the other trans. I know it might horrify transphobes but there are a lot of people out there who date trans people.

AgnestaVipers · 29/08/2022 20:46

If they do, they are bisexual, not lesbians.

Honestly, I just think women who cannot see the misogyny are blind.

Helleofabore · 29/08/2022 20:47

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:45

I've met couples where one is cis, the other trans. I know it might horrify transphobes but there are a lot of people out there who date trans people.

And that was not the question oldcrone asked, was it?

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:49

AgnestaVipers · 29/08/2022 20:46

If they do, they are bisexual, not lesbians.

Honestly, I just think women who cannot see the misogyny are blind.

A lesbian who dates a trans woman is not bisexual and neither is a gay man who dates a trans man. Who are you to police other people's identities?

AgnestaVipers · 29/08/2022 20:49

You are brainwashed. It's hard to take you seriously.

JustFlying · 29/08/2022 20:50

334bu · 29/08/2022 06:41

stoplittlepotstop

FYI
Witnesses of the start of the Stonewall riot all say that the person who probably started the riot was a lesbian called Stormie Laverie. The drag artiste Marsha Johnson was by their own recorded account not even there that day.

This.

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:50

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:45

I've met couples where one is cis, the other trans. I know it might horrify transphobes but there are a lot of people out there who date trans people.

McKinnon/Ivy says that lesbians who don't want to have sex with someone with a penis have 'genital hangups'. It would be hard to make the lesbophobia more obvious than in that comment.

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:51

AgnestaVipers · 29/08/2022 20:49

You are brainwashed. It's hard to take you seriously.

Happily brainwashed and joyfully part of the rainbow family! 🏳️‍🌈

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 29/08/2022 20:53

Its really not a good look to admit that you’ve been brainwashed into your views

Datun · 29/08/2022 20:54

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:51

Happily brainwashed and joyfully part of the rainbow family! 🏳️‍🌈

Well, when you're correct, you're correct.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 29/08/2022 20:55

Datun · 29/08/2022 20:54

Well, when you're correct, you're correct.

Fair point as always datun 😀

AgnestaVipers · 29/08/2022 20:55

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:51

Happily brainwashed and joyfully part of the rainbow family! 🏳️‍🌈

If it's a family then its a toxic patriarchal mess.

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:55

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:51

Happily brainwashed and joyfully part of the rainbow family! 🏳️‍🌈

Not a single thought you can call your own. I pity you.

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:56

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:55

Not a single thought you can call your own. I pity you.

All my thoughts are my own, that is why they are my own. 😀

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:59

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 20:56

All my thoughts are my own, that is why they are my own. 😀

If they're your own thoughts can you explain why you believe that expecting a lesbian to have sex with someone with a penis isn't homophobic?

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 21:00

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 20:59

If they're your own thoughts can you explain why you believe that expecting a lesbian to have sex with someone with a penis isn't homophobic?

I don't expect anyone to have sex with someone unless they want to.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 29/08/2022 21:02

Still unable to answer the question

thatll be the brainwashing

OldCrone · 29/08/2022 21:04

Hearach15 · 29/08/2022 21:00

I don't expect anyone to have sex with someone unless they want to.

So you agree that all the people who say TWAW are homophobic?

Helleofabore · 29/08/2022 21:05

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 29/08/2022 20:53

Its really not a good look to admit that you’ve been brainwashed into your views

Well, if you declare that you don’t care at all what Peter Tatchell has written and actually activated about, and cannot admit whether you 100% support what he, Nancy Kelley and Jane Fae who are Stonewall representatives say when directly asked about 10 times, I think we can assume that either there is much truth to that brainwashing comment, or that the poster is actually a hypocrite and holds others to a higher standard than Stonewall representatives.

Either way, avoidance of what McKinnon actually said and the implications of what McKinnon actually said, is the usual method.

ButterstheCat · 29/08/2022 21:06

@Hearach15

Do you think a lesbian is transphobic if she doesn't want to have sex with someone with a penis?