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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Kellie Jay Keen and Tucker Carlson of Fox News

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concernedfriend500 · 20/05/2022 09:40

I used to admire Kellie Jay Keen for her staunch defence of women's rights and her refusal to bow down to the bullies. But I'm so over her now. Last night I watched one of her YouTube videos and she praised Tucker Carlson to the skies, saying what what a good guy he is. For those of you who don't know, Carlson is a right wing troll who has been accused of being a white supremacist. He presents an insanely popular talk show on US Fox News, on which KJL has appeared on several times. Carlson also pushes the "great replacement" theory and no-one with progressive principles should have anything to do with him, let alone normalise his racism. My guess is that KJK has swallowed the "my enemy's enemy is my friend" line and is going down a dangerous rabbit hole. But I'm out.

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lameasahorse · 21/05/2022 02:03

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TheAntiGardener · 21/05/2022 00:13

The problem with using platforms like this is that people absolutely do judge by the company you keep. It’s great that posters on here can listen to all sorts of commentators and make their minds up on individual arguments, but the general public is more tribal and less into the detail. That might be frustrating, but it doesn’t make it any less true.

We know that the GC POV is inaccurately portrayed as bigoted, hateful and not truly about women’s rights at all, and we know the vast majority of people hear that message and aren’t sufficiently interested to dig deeper - they hear someone they trust say it and they believe it. Appearing on Fox plays into the hands of commentators like Owen Jones who are pushing the narrative that GC is nothing more than a hatred of trans people.

So I’m very sceptical that GC campaigners speaking on Fox and the like is spreading the message to anyone useful. I think it just reinforces the view that GC sits squarely in the basket of intolerant, extreme right-wing views.

When you have people being so incredibly disingenuous about the supoosedly "bad" platforms, it quickly becomes clear that there is nothing that anyone can do to be right.

By their very nature any platform that will highlight all of this is one that will be seen as "bad" by certain types of progressives. They subscribe to a worldview where critisizing any element of the progressive viewpoint, even just disputing their data, makes one a Nazi. Very often they haven't even really much idea about the background of the controversy.

You aren't going to be able to convince people like that.

NotBadConsidering · 21/05/2022 02:13

There’s nothing wrong at all with not supporting KJK. It’s the demand that no one else does, lest we all get led astray down a dark right wing path because we’re all sooo weak minded that is the problem. Don’t like her? Fine. But don’t tell those that do that we are part of a problem. And don’t purity spiral us by pretending her talking to right wing people is damaging. What you actually mean is you’re not open minded enough to accept the fact you agree with right wing people on simple matters of biology.

Simple question: Tucker Carlson and KJK think the definition of woman is adult human female. Do you agree with them?

lameasahorse · 21/05/2022 02:14

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NotBadConsidering · 21/05/2022 02:26

No, not at all. It’s a simple indication that you can still agree with people on some issues even if you disagree on others. That watching Fox News doesn’t mean you support storming the Capitol. That appearing on it doesn’t mean anything other than you’re there to discuss the issue you’re there for. That supporting someone who appeared on Fox News (ages ago now 🙄) on one issue, means you support anything else that person does.

Is it naivety that thinks anyone who does will end up firebombing abortion clinics, or sanctimony?

DeeCeeCherry · 21/05/2022 02:36

I can't get with feminist ideology a la MN as theyd align with the devil homself as long as he agreed that women are women. So Im unsurprised they deem TC as cool, simply because he gives one of their champion women a platform.

& of course, he is an example of White male privilege being able to say almost what it wants - and they like that too. You won't get much criticism of him in here

10 Black people lost their lives via twisted White supremacy. TC absolutely DOES push the Great Replacement Theory - theres no way that they dont know this. Hes not exactly quiet about it. FOX News are abhorrent anyway.

BWAW needs to be a slogan too because despite several of them having their heads blown off by racist scum, the fact that TC constantly vocalised his support of a theory that radicalises young men and endangers non-White prople, appears not to matter. Mostly I guess because theyre not the 'right type' of murdered in cold blood women are they?

NotBadConsidering · 21/05/2022 02:43

“Align”

Always that word, “align”. Meaning, from posters who love to drop in, you agree on one thing, ergo you agree on everything 🙄.

It’s so childish, really, I don’t know how people function as adults in the real world.

nepeta · 21/05/2022 06:34

Those who are politically very conservative (especially in the cultural and social sense) need a word for the female sex as they largely wish to see that sex constrained to the home and subjugated to male leadership. That's what I have gathered from reading and watching various people in that camp, including Tucker Carlson.

Those who are gender critical and feminists (not necessarily identical groups) need a word for the female sex partly to fight those attempts to constrain women's lives and to have them subjugated to male leadership inside families.

So the two groups (anti-feminist conservatives such as Tucker Carlson and gender critical feminists) have opposite reasons for defining 'women' as 'adult human females'. Both sides, however, need the word.

Someone used the example of the Ku Klux Klan and the NAACP, to make this clearer. Both of those organisations also need to have a name which could be applied to Black people in the US, but their reasons are diametrically opposed.

It would be much better if more left-wing publications would accept submissions from gender critical writers. Mostly they do not, however. And there we are.

DrLouiseJMoody · 21/05/2022 07:08

Given that we have the spectacle of self-appointed left-wing authorities regularly writing in the Daily Mail and Spectator whilst droning on about that no-one else should do similar, or getting drunk and calling PP a "thick feck" (on-line bullying to most of us), I really cannot get worked up about a woman choosing to disseminate her message via large platforms offered to her.

francesfrankenfurter · 21/05/2022 07:47

You do know Kiki says very nasty things about women who do not agree with her. She has dished it out.

notyoumeg · 21/05/2022 07:50

DrLouiseJMoody · 21/05/2022 07:08

Given that we have the spectacle of self-appointed left-wing authorities regularly writing in the Daily Mail and Spectator whilst droning on about that no-one else should do similar, or getting drunk and calling PP a "thick feck" (on-line bullying to most of us), I really cannot get worked up about a woman choosing to disseminate her message via large platforms offered to her.

Exactly, what's Julie Bindel done for women and girls lately?

She's more interested in getting on the piss with JKR at the River Cafe than expanding our message outside of her own bubble.

Helleofabore · 21/05/2022 07:53

Who is kiki?

Helleofabore · 21/05/2022 08:00

Who benefits from feeding division within feminists?

Yes. Women have minds of their own and will talk to who they wish. These issues are across all political alignments despite the constant push to define it as a far right agenda.

I am also not really sure people understand that there are people who may agree with many ‘leftist’ ideals but are not left wing. It is like there is this ridiculous notion of there only being left and right. There are other options.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 21/05/2022 08:34

Feminism isn't a left wing purity test thankfully. It's for all women, including those who are right wing and/or you don't like. I guarantee there are no TRA threads agonising over eg Owen Jones' latest alliances and he's just a rentagob taking it upon himself to speak for transpeople rather than being trans himself. Posie Parker is a woman. She reaches a wide audience, if you don't want that it's up you but she has the right and ability to do so.

(I understand part of it is the right taking gleeful advantage of the insane self-destruction of the left, but so what? It's not our duty to keep quiet and take the abuse from left wing men for the cause)

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 21/05/2022 08:35

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the vast vast majority of feminists don’t support johnson on MN

time and time again they said how much they hated the idea of voting tory and how much they loathed him

lots of people on this board have also said they don’t support/like KJK but think she has a right to speak and get information out

its tiresome saying that MN is this or that….its a mixture of things

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 21/05/2022 08:36

francesfrankenfurter · 21/05/2022 07:47

You do know Kiki says very nasty things about women who do not agree with her. She has dished it out.

Ahhhh gotcha

so if someone says something nasty and lower myself to their level

awesome

though to be fair it describes most of the (earlier) brexit threads

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 21/05/2022 08:37

I should lower myself…

🤨 its early…thats my only excuse and I’m sticking with it

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 21/05/2022 08:40

I can't get with feminist ideology a la MN as theyd align with the devil homself as long as he agreed that women are women

rubbish

lets see if i can turn this around

if you misrepresent the beliefs and posts of women on mumsnet on purpose, then i think you are probably misrepresenting all sorts of things…

BordoisAgain · 21/05/2022 08:45

Maybe your ire should be with the journalists and shows that won't have KJK on, rather than KJK taking whatever opportunities are open to her to get the message out there.

Floisme · 21/05/2022 09:28

Sometimes when I come on this board I feel like I'm a teenager again, being told to stay away from certain friends because they're the Wrong Crowd and it might Give People Ideas about me.

Does this chaperoning ever end?

nolongersurprised · 21/05/2022 09:36

I can't get with feminist ideology a la MN as theyd align with the devil homself

For TRAs, you ‘align’ with someone if you agree with them.

This makes me think that TRAs are either very young or don’t have jobs or both.

I have a professional job that required a zillion years of study/training. I have worked closely and become friends with people whose political beliefs are vastly different from my own. It is possible to respect people’s work, value their opinion and simultaneously disagree with their views on social issues.

people are nuanced - this demand for 100% ideological purity from the progressive left is misguided and a sign of immaturity

Lovelyricepudding · 21/05/2022 09:50

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Middle of the night, drops in to tell us we are feminising wrong and shouldn't post on MN? Not sure how much more transparent you could be!

SlightlyGeordieJohn · 21/05/2022 09:53

user1471504747 · 20/05/2022 11:55

There’s been a couple of threads on this, one as recently as last month I believe. Not everyone feels that way. With most things in life people have different opinions.

Personally I can see why people feel that way, I’ve seen racist posts on FWR, and some of the posters on here have been very vocal on BM on certain threads. So when you recognise a name name of a frequently racist poster on BM then posting all over FWR it can make you feel a bit uncertain. Also a lot of racism denial in the Central Park threads.

Tbh I think the main issue there is really how MNHQ deal (or DONT deal) with racist posts/posters but of course that is for another thread.

Yhis is the thread I’m referencing, you can even see from the first page unfortunately some posters felt it was appropriate to leave racist responses which were deleted. Why do lots of black women feel feminism is not for them

Is this supposed to be a parody post?
“Everyone who I disagree with is a racist, and what’s worse, they won’t even admit it!”