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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Rapes committed by women - JKR got me thinking

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scratchedbymycat · 13/12/2021 19:10

JKR just tweeted again. I agree wholeheartedly with her views, but some of the responses have got me thinking.

Why does it matter if crime stats say women rape?

(I promise I'm not trolling here. In fact, I'm hoping for some startlingly clear objective responses to fuel my arguments.)

For me, I find it downright hateful, after all the violence and hate directed towards women by men, that stats will now say 'women are doing it to women'. That makes me so damn angry. But is feeling offended by this, on principle, enough?

On crime stats and recording... Seth Abramson (I know) on Twitter commented that the fact the perpetrator has a penis will come up in the court case. So the court will know they are not biologically female.

Also, if we say a woman raped another, doesn't that also immediately tell us the rapist was transgender? (The only group who identify as women but are also bepenised).

How does a biological women rape another? Because I've seen claims on Twitter that some biological women have been found guilty of rape. Is this a lie?

I'm trying to tease my thoughts out. Only just starting to comment about the gender identity consequences for women to friends etc, and just want to be super clear when I say anything, and not to slip into emotional anger (which happens a lot for me).

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ArabellaScott · 18/12/2021 19:52

thanks, Helleofabore, for that film of Rhona Hotchkiss'. Very interesting.

CheeseMmmm · 18/12/2021 20:05

Sorry for side track everyone but bk vv worrying and not sure what's going on.

Found sept 2020 the sept follow up bk remanded in continuing custody til Oct 2020.

Will try find after that.

Solas has v detail knowledge and believes out on bail.

CheeseMmmm · 18/12/2021 20:06

Gript article 13 Oct which is date of review by video link has censored over it.

Same message as when previously pretty much all info vanished from web.

CheeseMmmm · 18/12/2021 20:09

Date of review was Oct 13. In an Irish newspaper.

'Today, October 12th, Gript Media was the latest outlet to receive a threatening letter from Tusla, the child and family agency, demanding that we remove all coverage of Ms. Kardashian’s story, on the grounds that publication of the story breaches an order of the high court issued in July 2020.'

So the notice to pull all info sent from tusla to multiple sites was issued day before bk court appt.

CheeseMmmm · 18/12/2021 20:16

Oct 2020 remanded continuing custody.

(Really hard to find this stuff. 2 pieces say this that's all. Given so much interest seems odd to me).

So what happened Oct 20 to now...

Solas you know out, do you have links etc?

I am struggling info is sparce.

CheeseMmmm · 18/12/2021 20:26

solas

Reading again you've said twice BK out - one said released Limerick, other just out on bail iirc.

Can you please confirm.
Source/link pls v important this is new info far as I can tell.

Googling for anything after Oct 13 continuing remand, can't find anything at all, zilch.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 18/12/2021 20:38

Another thank you to Hellofabore for that. Rona Hotchkiss is a real voice of experience and sanity in all this madness.

TynieTim · 18/12/2021 21:05

[quote Helleofabore]This is an interesting listen from Rhona Hotchkiss on males in female prison.

[/quote] That is really interesting. And very concerning. Thanks for posting.
SolasAnla · 18/12/2021 23:09

@cheeseMmmm

I had a look around and an 99% sure I am mistaken on being out on bail.
Aparently BK was already on bail for priors when arrested in Sep.
Apologies

This may have more details but it's not letting me log in:
www.limerickleader.ie/news/news/580587/teenager-accused-of-making-threats-to-kill-remanded-in-continuing-custody-at-limerick-prison.html

The report from May 2021 says 3 in custody in Limerick Women's Prison:
m.independent.ie/irish-news/transgender-inmates-are-housed-inwomens-wing-of-prison-40430731.html

SolasAnla · 18/12/2021 23:55

Thanks for the clip Helleofabore, intresting and depressing and hopeful

Helleofabore · 19/12/2021 00:03

I am pleased to have people like Rhona to guide us. She is passionate about reform and not only qualified via deep experience but academically too.

I still laugh at the man who told her she had no idea and was just a hater. That was a great burn. Makes me laugh every time.

CheeseMmmm · 19/12/2021 00:07

Yes seen articles Limerick leader, just get couple lines. Managed from those lines date etc to find (only 1 maybe 2) reports that on same thing as the Limerick reporting.

Well thank FUCK for that.
Breathed a sigh of relief.
Women's prison isolated is bollocks, but better than released on bail.
You scared the shit out of me!

You have seen how little info is out there then?

Which for loads of reasons including previous level of media coverage by Irish news outlets is vv odd.

CheeseMmmm · 19/12/2021 01:02

Inspection report submitted to minister June 2021 said two.

I'll find dates actual inspection.

What was date of the boozy person again?

CheeseMmmm · 19/12/2021 01:04

21 may to 11 June 2021 inspection carried out.

Other report you mention may 2021 said 3.

Boozy person released just before inspection or before got to that wing?

CheeseMmmm · 19/12/2021 01:14

Boozy person 1 year, reported 1 march 2021.

CheeseMmmm · 19/12/2021 01:20

Just checked prison service report. Two.

Wtf is going on.

One has somehow been... Out of the picture when inspector came?
I mean. Makes no sense. Doesn't add up.

CheeseMmmm · 19/12/2021 01:21

Solas any info?

Should have been 3

BK
Boozy person
Child molester

Child molester released in may?

SolasAnla · 19/12/2021 09:05

@CheeseMmmm

Solas any info?

Should have been 3

BK
Boozy person
Child molester

Child molester released in may?

No, the child molester was asking a Judge to be let out of prison.

www.irishexaminer.com/news/courtandcrime/arid-40234322.html

www.breakingnews.ie/amp/ireland/transgender-sex-offender-loses-sentence-appeal-1098403.html

The prison service report if thats an annual report would be about 2020.
The report would also only be about complaints problems or issues. So how was it worded 2 in jail or met 2 who had complaints?

SomepeopleareTERFSgetoverit · 19/12/2021 09:26

Why can there not be a simple rule that says you face trial and any subsequent imprisonment in the gender you presented as at the time of your offence? That would remove the incentive for the sudden realisation of their true selves that seems to come upon a lot of these male rapists.

HoardingSamphireSaurus · 19/12/2021 09:37

[quote SolasAnla]@HoardingSamphireSaurus

So the pinch point is the criteria set before the funding application starts.
Its a no service is batter than low service attitude.
Plus push the risk down into the service when the try to expand beyond their capacity to meet the funding need instead of the RL needs. The funder gets to point to the provider and claims mismanagement.

Its indirect discrimination for a minority of women
•women who flee abusive households with their children but as a minority of women of all socio-economic backgrounds.
•women who have been sexually assalulted but not all women.

If they are public funded do they not have to respond to FOI's or are these applications exempt?
I know that some LA suppliers were complaining that competitors were using that to their advantage or pulling all the bids to check who it went to.[/quote]
Sorry to come back to this so late. But yes, increasingly so.

FOIs don't always apply, many funding pots are private. The Lottery will respond to FOI, but they tell you why you have been refused, in a mealy mouthed way. We have been specifically 'warned' by them and others, about our lack of diversity for about 3 years now. Our LA has fallen foul of it but, so far, have managed to defend their 'local support for local issues' stance, to quite a large extent.

We're having another meeting after New Year to discuss the benefits of closer affiliations between us (there are a large handful of different charities working under a loose administrative umbrella - for cheap labour like me Smile ). But it isn't that simple as some of those closer affiliations could lose us our client confidence. A tightrope we needn't walk if diversity didn't now increasingly mean gender ideology.

scratchedbymycat · 19/12/2021 10:04

@SomepeopleareTERFSgetoverit

Why can there not be a simple rule that says you face trial and any subsequent imprisonment in the gender you presented as at the time of your offence? That would remove the incentive for the sudden realisation of their true selves that seems to come upon a lot of these male rapists.
Because every rapist would probably instantly identify as a woman.
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SolasAnla · 19/12/2021 10:08

@SomepeopleareTERFSgetoverit

Why can there not be a simple rule that says you face trial and any subsequent imprisonment in the gender you presented as at the time of your offence? That would remove the incentive for the sudden realisation of their true selves that seems to come upon a lot of these male rapists.
What gender is presented when the human with penis forces their penis into a child/ woman/ man?

How do we as a community define "presented"?

At the moment it's an internal feeling of one sex that they feel like the opposite sex. I can feel like I have wings, I have been on a plane, I have been on a swing. How can I not know what it is to have wings, be able to flap my wings and fly off to somewhere?

If "presented" is physical things how do we do draw the line.

What gender are you if you are wearing a woven cloth from waist to ankle which has no inside seam and raped a child/ woman/ man?

Male in a "dress" from "European" background said I am a woman on arrest.
V
Male in a "tunic" from "Middle Eastern" background said I am a woman on arrest.

BK has a GRC because Ireland has no checks at all. No checks of medical condition, no check of criminal history.

The opinion of the specialists in the field was that BK met another child who had GD and decided label was advantageous to achieving desired outcomes.

Ireland has women who committed very violent crimes but most women are in prison for not paying fines. Some may not pay on principle but most will not pay due to poverty.

The real problem in Ireland will be if/when the prison system have to deal with a female who is legally male convicted of a crime which can't have a suspended sentence. It will not be like Scotland the Irish Prison system can't house a legal male in the Women's Prison.
In that instance the Judge has a serious moral dilemma but must still follow the law and sentence prison time.

SomepeopleareTERFSgetoverit · 19/12/2021 10:58

Did I express myself poorly? This scenario:-

“Joe” rapes a woman.

He looks like a man, his friends know him as a man, he has never expressed any desire to be a woman.

At his trial he turns up in a wig and wants to be called Josephine.

The system says no, you were a man when you carried out the offence and we will not acknowledge this sudden change of heart nor require your victim to use female pronouns.

Zerogravity · 19/12/2021 13:12

The system says no, you were a man when you carried out the offence and we will not acknowledge this sudden change of heart nor require your victim to use female pronouns.
But how would that work? It's not necessary to dress "like a woman" nowadays. Joe can just say "I always felt like a woman inside".

timeisnotaline · 19/12/2021 13:15

@SomepeopleareTERFSgetoverit

Did I express myself poorly? This scenario:-

“Joe” rapes a woman.

He looks like a man, his friends know him as a man, he has never expressed any desire to be a woman.

At his trial he turns up in a wig and wants to be called Josephine.

The system says no, you were a man when you carried out the offence and we will not acknowledge this sudden change of heart nor require your victim to use female pronouns.

What if Joe had already identified as a woman to be a girl guides leader or a school teacher and go on camps or a gymnastics coach? They’d pass your test, still be a male pedophile, but go to a women’s prison.
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