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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

R4 now Tuesday 7.51 am

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somethinginoffensive · 08/06/2021 07:52

Discussing Stonewall.

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Erikrie · 08/06/2021 17:23

if anyone mis genders or mis calls you the wrath of the Furies descends in a red mist of pain and hurt feelingz

Sounds dreadful. Still Benjamin's on the case.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 08/06/2021 17:25

@Sophoclesthefox

Personally, I’m fully supportive of Benjamin’s role as a spokesperson on this topic, he’s exactly the man for the job, and I can’t wait to hear more from him Grin
Grin Grin Grin

Indeed!

HeavenHotel · 08/06/2021 17:26

Kathy Burke has now deleted her tweet about the interview.

Erikrie · 08/06/2021 17:29

The beauty of screen shots. Too late Kathy.

TalkingtoLangClegintheDark · 08/06/2021 17:31

Oh I missed that, what did Kathy say? (Sorry, haven’t RTFT)

theleavesaregreen · 08/06/2021 17:31

20 years ago, I spent the night in a women's only dormitory in a youth hostel. The other "woman" in the dormitory turned out to be male-bodied, and physically attacked me (punched me astonishingly hard for a "woman") when I turned the light on to get changed for bed, and then threw all my belongings into the corridor. I had to sleep elsewhere. I reported them to the police. They were banned from the YHA, but the next weekend turned up in the women's dormitory at a different hostel. The police told me that they had also been reported for flashing at a girl in a women's toilet, and were travelling with lots of sex toys on their bike (cycling holiday). In those days, the YHA's trans policy was that trans people should stay in a private room. Which this person had ignored.

noraclavicle · 08/06/2021 17:34

nauticant

"right then, if you want an identity war we'll give you one".

The parent who gave birth of all battles, as it were Wink

nauticant · 08/06/2021 17:34

This is now being discussed on the PM Programme on Radio 4.

Hotcuppatea · 08/06/2021 17:34

It's being rehashed on Today now.

Diaryofamadwoman · 08/06/2021 17:34

They're talking about it now on PM

ItsDinah · 08/06/2021 17:35

Radio 4 PM 17.34 - repeating and discussing

WarriorN · 08/06/2021 17:35

Oooh interesting

Hotcuppatea · 08/06/2021 17:35

Evan Davies hasn't done well on this issue before in my view. Will be interesting to hear him now.

GoodbyePorpoiseSpit · 08/06/2021 17:36

Lovely to hear Ben unraveling again

theleavesaregreen · 08/06/2021 17:36

I was certainly unlucky, as I went to 2 different hostels 2 weekends running, and this person was in my women's dormitory on both occasions! They were presumably spending their whole holiday in women's dormitories. They did pass in those days - when the possibility of someone being trans was the last thing on your mind. And because you had no idea that you were sharing the dormitory with a male person, you naturally behaved as you would in an all female dormitory. These days, transwomen are permitted to stay in YHA dormitories, which isn't great for the women and girls who use them, in the belief that the dormitories are still single sex.

WarriorN · 08/06/2021 17:36

Ok so more men discussing this...

nauticant · 08/06/2021 17:36

Evan Davis: "We all have a gender identity."

But, fuck me, they've got Jonathan Haidt on.

WarriorN · 08/06/2021 17:38

2009 - like and RT button.

Also 2014 - I think there's a YouTube algorithm link too.

Letsgetreadytocrumble · 08/06/2021 17:39

I feel a bit emotional today after all this...

I first saw the screenshot of Stonewall's campaign points about 2 years ago, on here. I literally couldn't believe what it said, I honestly thought it might have been photoshopped, so I went onto the website myself and there it was, I was just horrified! Since then I have seen it shared on here and I have shared it myself a few times on here, there was some talk about it. But I felt like people were so unaware of what was happening - here is the biggest LGBT charity in the UK, possibly the world, who everyone thinks is so great, actually campaigning for the complete abolition of single sex spaces for females, to change the law so that a woman could never be in a position where she knew that the space she was using would be free of males. And no one really seemed to care?

Today, I have seen this screenshot all over Twitter. Everyone who has an interest in this issue is talking about it.

I truly feel like the wheels have fucking finally begun to come off.

R4 now Tuesday 7.51 am
WarriorN · 08/06/2021 17:39

In a way it's good that mn doesn't have a like or rt button

WarriorN · 08/06/2021 17:41

Social media turned communication into performance.

Yup.

AmIPeriOrAreYouJustAnnoying · 08/06/2021 17:41

What programme was this on?

susiebluebell · 08/06/2021 17:41

Very interesting, and longer, follow-up piece on R4 right now.

nauticant · 08/06/2021 17:42

Evan Davis doesn't seem that pleased with what Jonathan Haidt is saying.

Kenneldogsrock · 08/06/2021 17:43

I’ve just listened to the recording from this morning… omg Justin was fab! BC was full of cliches and slogans. I loved the Segway into the weather too… it sounded like the weather person rather enjoyed it too 😃