LemonSwan, that is horrendous, I'm so sorry.
Really baffling, to me, that we get so many visitors at FWR to berate us on how awful, bigoted and mean we are - yet there's the whooooole rest of the internet with forums and discussions taking place that are - well, another level, to say the least.
It's like Che Guevara gatecrashing the WI, and shitting on the scones for being bourgeois, while knowing fine well that elsewhere Batista is merrily setting up the firing squads.