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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Eighth- Sealion training for beginners

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SophocIestheFox · 13/02/2021 21:08

Old thread nearly full!

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The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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BuntingEllacott · 22/02/2021 14:10

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Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

MyVisionsComeFromSoup · 22/02/2021 14:24

@BreakfastCrunchies

Sorry quick favour please. Would those of you who here who have a few minutes free, mind checking your local GP's website and clicking on the new patients registration form? My new Gp has their forms for me to print and fill out which are basically the same as I've ever known. Lots of questions about medicines, family health history, medical history alcohol but none about pregnancies/smears which I've always been asked before. It doesn't even ask sex. I started a thread about it on AIBU but everyone is claiming to have never seen such a form! I've moved around a bit in the UK and had it on every form I'm sure.
I registered with a new GP over the phone, the receptionist read out the questions, and automatically answered herself to "sex" with "female" based just off my name and voice. I'm in a slightly less woke area of a very woke city, so was pleasantly surprised.

The actual form just has tick boxes for either male or female, no category heading.

MaudTheInvincible · 22/02/2021 14:35

The actual form just has tick boxes for either male or female, no category heading

I noticed that too. Makes me wonder what the fields are called in the development view of the database.

PotholeParadies · 22/02/2021 14:45

If you're on FB, are you getting ads asking for money from an environmental charity that was a prat on twitter last year?

The one that was told by a load of women that they would be cancelling their DDs?

BuntingEllacott · 22/02/2021 18:32

I'd like to repost the essence of the deleted post above. I typed 'sane' instead of 'same' as I was in a hurry and on my phone, and didn't want the last word the be lesbophobes saying lesbians love cock on a thread about lesbians say no.

I'm delighted to have another opportunity to underline that lesbians saying no to cock is a general thing and not directed at any cock in particular.

ErrolTheDragon · 22/02/2021 18:41

And entirely sane to boot.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 22/02/2021 19:22

You’ve lost me Floral but I hope it was a deletion and not a strike.

BuntingEllacott · 22/02/2021 19:26

YetAnother, I was responding in the deleted post to Arabella who noticed my typo at the end of the Allison Bailey thread. No, I didn't get a strike for it, but some sensitive soul read the original post as referring to a specific penis. Which it was not, nor would it be. Because I have no interest in penis. On anyone. Glad to have the platform to make that very clear.

ArabellaScott · 22/02/2021 19:43

Sorry, Bunting! Sad I was just saying I thought it was a cute typo. Sad

CoffeeTeaChocolate · 22/02/2021 19:49

lesbians saying no to cock is a general thing and not directed to any cock in particular.

Some sensitive soul read the original post as referring to a specific penis. Which it is not.

Glad to have the platform to make that very clear

What on earth is wrong with some people????

Bunting, thank you, love your posts!

BuntingEllacott · 22/02/2021 20:05

Arabella, don't sweat it. I've been chuckling over the whole thing this evening as it hadn't occured to me that anyone would have read the post as referring to a specific, erm, thing. And when I found out why it had been deleted, I realized how very funny it was that someone must care so much about cock when I give no shits at all Grin

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/02/2021 20:19

Im always pleased when i can use pique in a sentence

And behoove

Love me some behoove

BuntingEllacott · 22/02/2021 20:29

Of course you do, Rufus the reindeer...

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/02/2021 20:31

Oh yeah 😳

Fuck me im slow tonight 😀

CoffeeTeaChocolate · 22/02/2021 20:53

Someone must be quite sensitive about their (?) penis? Or did someone worry that someone else would find their penis rejected by lesbians?

Bunting, I am so happy this all got cleared up. I am sure that everyone is feeling much better now.

Gin for everyone, I think we need it.

notyourhandmaid · 22/02/2021 21:13

I am so sick of penis.

Galvantulang · 22/02/2021 21:34

@notyourhandmaid

I am so sick of penis.
😂
CoffeeTeaChocolate · 22/02/2021 21:48

notyourhandmaid Can we please specify that you are sick of penis in general? I don’t want anyone to feel that their penis is rejected.

Sophoclesthefox · 22/02/2021 21:51

Feminists: making penises sad since the campaign for suffrage Grin

What a weird deletion, bunting, I think it must be a full moon or something, there’s weirdness everywhere.

persistentwoman · 22/02/2021 22:11

Between this thread and the sad aromantics thread, I'm heading for bed chuckling. Grin

MaudTheInvincible · 23/02/2021 01:26

Feeling better about women's place in the world tonight after hearing some lovely speeches in the MOMA bill's debate in the HoL. So I bring you a sweet little marmoset from twitter twitter.com/PrimatesDaily/status/1339729591582126080?s=20

picklemewaInuts · 23/02/2021 06:59

The q&a thread is lost, isn't it. I'm sitting firmly on my hands. What a glowing demonstration it is of narcissism. Educational.

ErrolTheDragon · 23/02/2021 08:29

I didn't read all of it, but seems to me more like someone has unintentionally served the role of devils advocate and I think notice a few new heads of the feminist hydra springing up with good rebuttals.

Dalyesque · 23/02/2021 17:50

Anyone know why the baroness Noakes thread isn’t there?

unwashedanddazed · 23/02/2021 18:04

Does anyone know whose milkshake is bringing all the boys to the yard?