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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Eighth- Sealion training for beginners

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SophocIestheFox · 13/02/2021 21:08

Old thread nearly full!

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The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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PotholeParadies · 23/02/2021 20:50

Glinner blogged about MN recently.

Tell you what, I need to investigate the covid boards again- according to twitter MN is a viral reservoir for covid-denialism. Did not know this! It certainly didn't use to be- we were all stockpiling from January 2020 I thought.

I wonder if it'll be actually true.

SunsetBeetch · 23/02/2021 21:55

@PotholeParadies

Glinner blogged about MN recently.

Tell you what, I need to investigate the covid boards again- according to twitter MN is a viral reservoir for covid-denialism. Did not know this! It certainly didn't use to be- we were all stockpiling from January 2020 I thought.

I wonder if it'll be actually true.

Spoiler: it's not.
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 23/02/2021 21:56

Is twitter ever right about anything?

ArabellaScott · 23/02/2021 22:08

Spoiler: it's not.

Grin
YetAnotherSpartacus · 23/02/2021 22:08

I rarely go to the COVID board because of the denial. It’s not full on conspiracy theory, but most posters there are in denial mode and quite rude to many who are taking it seriously.

ArabellaScott · 23/02/2021 22:43

@unwashedanddazed

Does anyone know whose milkshake is bringing all the boys to the yard?
I could teach you, but ...
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 23/02/2021 22:53

You’d have to charge

unwashedanddazed · 23/02/2021 22:54

ArabellaScott I'm assuming it's due to all the sense being talked at the MOMA debate in the Lords. It being celebrated here brings a need to punish.

BuntingEllacott · 23/02/2021 23:24

@RufustheSniggeringReindeer

You’d have to charge
I'm told it's better than yours. Damn right.
Ereshkigalangcleg · 23/02/2021 23:33
Grin
SunsetBeetch · 24/02/2021 06:46

@YetAnotherSpartacus

I rarely go to the COVID board because of the denial. It’s not full on conspiracy theory, but most posters there are in denial mode and quite rude to many who are taking it seriously.
I mostly see people who are sick of lockdown and think it should end pronto because Covid is only killing old people. Which is horrible, but as you say not conspiracy theory level. And certainly not unique to this board. They do get challenged on it too by others.
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 24/02/2021 08:19

I'm told it's better than yours. Damn right

Harsh 😀

BuntingEllacott · 24/02/2021 09:11

😘

SunsetBeetch · 24/02/2021 09:16

I put Weetabix in mine. You can have that tip for free.

BuntingEllacott · 24/02/2021 10:15

Ah, but do you garnish with baked beans?
Mind you, they'd block the straw, I imagine.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/02/2021 10:26

Envy not envy

PotholeParadies · 24/02/2021 10:43

The manufacturers of Weetabix recommend it!

Also, I have a packet in the cupboard, and it says Weetabix is by Royal Appointment to the Queen.

BuntingEllacott · 24/02/2021 10:50

I bet she charges for what she teaches.

PotholeParadies · 24/02/2021 10:55

I have it on good authority* that I already pay 65p a year for what she teaches.

*Someone in AIBU told me so.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2021 11:02

65p? That's almost a whole packet of Jaffa Cakes. Poor value.

Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 24/02/2021 11:04

Can we please stop talking about weetabix? I'm highly triggered...

BuntingEllacott · 24/02/2021 11:05

Jaffa Cakes or Weetabix? No contest.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2021 11:11

You can report the posts, Wrongside. And I can recommend some deep breathing exercises, if it helps.

PotholeParadies · 24/02/2021 11:14

This is one of the things that distresses me about Marks and Spencers and the decisions that have driven me to boycott them. I can no longer buy the family their weird flavours of own-brand jaffa cakes.

CoffeeTeaChocolate · 24/02/2021 11:24

I will go against the grain here and say that I don’t mind the Weetabix conversation at all. Especially with beans.

I am on a diet and the thought makes me 🤮, so all good for staying out of the cupboards.

I love Jaffa cakes though so that conversation is a bit triggering for my munching habits.