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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Eighth- Sealion training for beginners

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SophocIestheFox · 13/02/2021 21:08

Old thread nearly full!

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The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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ErrolTheDragon · 17/02/2021 15:24

Sometimes I wonder about the motivation of some of the more...male socialised posters.

It's a game for people who don't take women's rights and women's autonomy seriously, perhaps?

TinselAngel · 17/02/2021 15:42

@YetAnotherSpartacus

And oh my goodness there is some extraordinary stuff out there on twitter which once seen can't be unseen

The black strap-on has really done my head in.

I just don't understand.

I thought that said "back strap on" and was confused.

I too have been robbed of my innocence today via a certain Twitter account. Envy (not envy)

picklemewalnuts · 17/02/2021 15:54

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boatyardblues · 17/02/2021 15:56

Water chestnuts have a totally unique texture! A sort of watery-snappy-chomp. Like half melted ice. I love them. And gherkins deserve their own cult - so pickly! So crunchy!

All of this ^

ArabellaScott · 17/02/2021 16:08

Thanks, boatyard. Quite taken aback at how defensive I feel over the reputations of said niche vegetables. This is how lockdown is getting to me - starved of social interactions we develop affinities in quite unexpected quarters.

If anyone needs me I'll be out the back stroking my kale.

TinselAngel · 17/02/2021 16:13

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picklemewalnuts · 17/02/2021 16:16

Tinsel it's my household filters I think. I'm guessing it's pornographic, which is filtered on wifi settings. Or something.

I did get to see the photos on JY's account though, speaking of Envy

OwBist · 17/02/2021 16:20

Oh god! Those images! My eyes.... At least on the antipodean farmer's site, they put a NSFL warning next to them. They weren't joking.

Oldstyle1 · 17/02/2021 16:36

If anyone needs me I'll be out the back stroking my kale.

Is this a euphemism Arabella? Or have I been looking at twitter too much?

SunsetBeetch · 17/02/2021 16:36

@boatyardblues

Water chestnuts have a totally unique texture! A sort of watery-snappy-chomp. Like half melted ice. I love them. And gherkins deserve their own cult - so pickly! So crunchy!

All of this ^

Co-signed !
SunsetBeetch · 17/02/2021 16:37

Random thought: wasn't "jazz mags" slang for porn mags?

ArabellaScott · 17/02/2021 16:49

My kale is perfectly wholesome and immune to your euphemistic taunts! Don't impugn her virtue!

ArabellaScott · 17/02/2021 16:51

The brussels sprouts, mind you, are dirty little buggers.

I think it might be time for a drink, is it time for a drink?

MaudTheInvincible · 17/02/2021 16:55

Brussels sprouts upset me because my mum was born near Brussels and I feel I should like them because of that. All the other veg mentioned are favourites of mine, but then I did used to drink the vinegar out of the pickled onion jar as a child.

DH and I are currently on the wagon, so you can have my ration of Wine or GinArabella

Galvantulang · 17/02/2021 16:57

It's totally me about the beansprouts, sorry. I can eat them though, if I have to. 😅

I am almost scared to ask what you saw today... I was working so haven't been on much since this morning.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 17/02/2021 17:44

The Twitter account really disturbed me. Some of the images made me feel quite ill. I’ve seen worse of course, but in this case I was juxtaposing them against j’s claims of victimhood and persecution and the kinds of things that j said in their post here. I felt mocked in some way. And it was sad to see so many women deleted for speaking the truth, including me, in light of all this. So, mocked and silenced.

ArabellaScott · 17/02/2021 17:48

Sorry, Yeta. It's galling to see what is protected and what is not

Winesalot · 17/02/2021 18:11

How many weeks between strikes are you allowed again?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/02/2021 18:17

It's three within a rolling six week period and you get temp or perm ban (depending on how naughty you've been before) as far as I know,

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/02/2021 18:17

So if you're on the second you want to be very careful in the next few weeks.

Winesalot · 17/02/2021 18:17

Thanks Eresh.

ArabellaScott · 17/02/2021 18:43

I've emailed and had one rescinded before, it might be worth querying.

VioletAlder · 17/02/2021 18:51

The 'other' twitter account is just photos of Jaz lying on Jaz's bed in their pants, as far as I can see.

I'd agree that if one wanted to pursue a serious political career, one would probably not link to that sort of thing - & a female politician absolutely would not.

I don't think that Jaz needs to be taken nearly as seriously as Jaz thinks they should be.

Jaz does not come across as a person who could be engaged with in the political arena.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 17/02/2021 23:14

There were some more explicit images than that, more sexual in nature and symbolically interesting too.

Dalyesque · 18/02/2021 00:23

Only just caught up with the other thread and too late to comment . Pleased to see that some at least have survived though it looks like there was a major cull of some of the bravest . Fantastic to read and see all you clever women out there. No.