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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunburying into Autumn (Bunbury 6)

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DianasLasso · 09/09/2020 13:08

Bit like blackberrying, with added derailment, sealioning and general JAQ-ing off. I'll copy and paste the opening post of the last thread.

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches gin

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RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 19/10/2020 21:59

Oh for goodness sake....

Sorry to hear that tyro

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 19/10/2020 22:00

really sorry to hear that

EdgeOfACoin · 19/10/2020 22:01

I've been genuinely astounded by some of the nonsense I've seen today.

I don't have the words.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 19/10/2020 22:01

Oh that thread!

That was alright as a thread i thought...i agree, i hope its back after the chat

Its not really fair to delete a thread full of good faith interesting posts because of one poster

( obviously apologies if that wasnt the reason for deleting)

EdgeOfACoin · 19/10/2020 22:04

I thought most people were sidestepping the poster and not being drawn. Oh well.

Shame about Tyro Sad

FloralBunting · 19/10/2020 22:07

What was there to be drawn on?

"The moon is made of cheese!"

"Please, continue to state your beliefs."

ErrolTheDragon · 19/10/2020 23:15

Bugger. Have a rest and come back refreshed, Tyro.

Cocothefirst · 20/10/2020 00:01

Sorry to hear that Tyro.

Moonbasealpha · 20/10/2020 00:11

What happened to that thread and why?

FloralBunting · 20/10/2020 03:22

No idea, Moon. There was some discussion about the most useful terms to use and also some obvious goady fuckery.

You posted on it, you should be able to see the deletion message.

Datun · 20/10/2020 03:23

Blimey tyro, I've never seen you write anything deletion worthy. Just evidence based stuff.

Ah.

ThePankhurstConnection · 20/10/2020 11:23

@TinselAngel

Tyro has asked me to pass on that she has been suspended for a week.
Why? That's utterly ridiculous. I can't believe that thread was pulled either. I hope it comes back since it was clearly a concentrated effort to cause problems. See, this is why I don't post much here any more. Posted a bit yesterday and then this happens. It's hardly worth it. Angry
Judashascomeintosomemoney · 20/10/2020 11:23

Ooh an early morning plopper. Must sit on hands so don’t respond......

ErrolTheDragon · 20/10/2020 11:24

I think I managed to completely miss whatever thread it was you're talking about.

DancelikeEmmaGoldman · 20/10/2020 12:10

I have been eating homemade lemon curd out of the jar. Only, I assure you, because my fingers are then too sticky to type properly, so I can’t tespond to threads. Not because I am a greedy feminist, not at all. Worth a try though.

ArabellaScott · 20/10/2020 12:17

Bum, Tyro. Sad

littlbrowndog · 20/10/2020 12:19

Bum from me tyro. As well 😥

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2020 12:29

I think I might go and dip my fingers in a pot of Nutella in the absence of lemon curd, Emma!

RozWatching · 20/10/2020 12:48

Judging by some recent deletions there seems to be a new taboo around the overlap between homophobia and other things. Tyro has posted some really insightful comments about it.
Hope you come back soon Tyro Star

ThePankhurstConnection · 20/10/2020 12:51

@DancelikeEmmaGoldman

I have been eating homemade lemon curd out of the jar. Only, I assure you, because my fingers are then too sticky to type properly, so I can’t tespond to threads. Not because I am a greedy feminist, not at all. Worth a try though.
I may be jealous, not of your sticky hands but of your homemade lemon curd - my favourite.
AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 20/10/2020 13:57

I do feel though that saying someone is a first time ever poster turning up to sealion might be better if doing a search on their name didn't show fifty or more threads that person had posted to already.

DeaconBoo · 20/10/2020 14:14

I also missed that one...

CaraDuneRedux · 20/10/2020 14:36

Always worth asking (in general terms) - is this a screenshotting expedition? or a goad-into-multiple-deletions exercise? or a toss-a-dead-cat-on-the-table distraction?

CaraDuneRedux · 20/10/2020 14:37

Homemade lemon curd is lush.

Always reminds me of my great aunt.

terryleather · 20/10/2020 15:38

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