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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunburying into Autumn (Bunbury 6)

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DianasLasso · 09/09/2020 13:08

Bit like blackberrying, with added derailment, sealioning and general JAQ-ing off. I'll copy and paste the opening post of the last thread.

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches gin

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RozWatching · 15/10/2020 00:45

Loving the Deconstructed WBH Grinitch.
It would make a stunning video installation!

Cocothefirst · 15/10/2020 09:23

littl I didn't know you'd had the banhammer. Pffft that's rubbish.

Winesalot · 15/10/2020 09:37

I am concerned that those craven ravens will eat all the bananas, or is that the plan...

yeah, I gave up on that massively derailed thread. Of course, it was all about validation on some level in the end, as usual.

DeaconBoo · 15/10/2020 09:44

Seems to be an increased level of lazy drive-by sniping scattered across threads. Three usernames spring to mind.
I love it when no-one bites - keep it up!
Dance - open a window - give yourself some Space instead...!

CaraDuneRedux · 15/10/2020 09:50

Deacon I see what you did there Grin.

Am I just being really suspicious or are some recent threads just too far fetched to be true? Are we beginning to see the GC equivalent of the poo troll?

Happy to be proved wrong, but... Hmm

ItsLateHumpty · 15/10/2020 14:35

It seems ‘Feminism Chat’ has disappeared from advanced search. If I’m not being a PICNIC - Problem In Chair Not In Computer - then it must be frustrating the monitors no end that they can’t just search to report.

I’m being positive than MN have removed this to help FWR users against vexatious reporting, or it’s a tech issue.

I’m I a PICNIC or has it disappeared?

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ItsLateHumpty · 15/10/2020 14:36

Opps ‘Am I a PICNIC..”

Can’t proof read, clearly. 🤦‍♀️

highame · 15/10/2020 14:40

I thought it had disappeared too, but no, it's still there, opposite column so something has shifted, perhaps another category added

InflamatoryWrit · 15/10/2020 14:41

You may be a PICNIC? I can see it

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DadDadDad · 15/10/2020 14:42

It's not immediately obvious but the list is split alphabetically over two columns, @ItsLateHumpty.

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CaraDuneRedux · 15/10/2020 14:57

PICNIC - I can't tell you how much this acronym will enhance my life Grin.

I am the living, breathing embodiment of PICNIC. Despite spending upwards of 50% of my day coding. Blush

Every day's a school day on here!

nauticant · 15/10/2020 15:20

Sports threads do seem to attract a mixed crew. The unfamiliar names do favour an "I'm all right Jack" stance.

persistentwoman · 15/10/2020 21:50

Someone give me a recipe please? (ideally not including weetabix). I need the calming influence of creative cooking.....

fatblackcatspaw · 15/10/2020 21:57

ok my thread Glinner has a crowdfunder barely lasted 5 mins... no link just copying the text. Are the TRAS in heat or something ? could be because full moon is due tomorrow?

persistentwoman · 15/10/2020 22:01

i think there's a ban on linking to crowd funders catblackcatspaw.

fatblackcatspaw · 15/10/2020 22:02

but there was no link... just text- is even mentioning they exist verboten?

fatblackcatspaw · 15/10/2020 22:03

confused cat ...>..

Cocothefirst · 15/10/2020 22:05

I believe we have new monitors today. Influx of new posters on the Brighton thread.

fatblackcatspaw · 15/10/2020 22:08

despite this nearly at £2000 ... so yah sucks boo

Moonbasealpha · 15/10/2020 23:40

Deacon I see what you did there

You could hardly miss it.

HecatesCats · 15/10/2020 23:43

I made some coconut, lemon & date 'bliss balls' with DD 1 this evening, but they've failed to live up to their name. Still livid.

ItsLateHumpty · 15/10/2020 23:49

Ahh thanks all, thank Crunchie I was just being a PICNIC.
Now I want chocolate 🤦‍♀️

CaraDuneRedux when I worked (moons ago) in tech support PICNIC is what we used to talk about / close calls from the ‘is your doodad plugged in and turned on’ first line support call Grin

Moonbasealpha · 15/10/2020 23:51

I was rather surprised to find a little lime pickle goes very well with cheese on toast. One of those combinations you wouldn’t think works, but it does.
Not for everyone of course. But I’d be interested to know if anyone else has tried it.

JellyFishSquish · 15/10/2020 23:59

Snuck that one in under the radar didn’t you. Moon. Well done.

boatyardblues · 16/10/2020 00:22

@Moonbasealpha

I was rather surprised to find a little lime pickle goes very well with cheese on toast. One of those combinations you wouldn’t think works, but it does. Not for everyone of course. But I’d be interested to know if anyone else has tried it.
Kimchi works really well in cheese toasties too.

I liked the ravens in Grinitch’s sexed up diorama, but I’m not budging on the rest of it. Ugh.

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