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Bunburying into Autumn (Bunbury 6)

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DianasLasso · 09/09/2020 13:08

Bit like blackberrying, with added derailment, sealioning and general JAQ-ing off. I'll copy and paste the opening post of the last thread.

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches gin

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/10/2020 01:49

Ooh I like the sound of these suggestions!

CaraDuneRedux · 16/10/2020 07:10

Good morning fellow Bunburyists.

I go to bed leaving at a sensible time then get up to find you've all stayed up way past your bedtimes feeding the aquatic mammals.

You've let me down, you've let Germaine down, and most of all you've let yourselves down. Wink

Go and copy out the OP of this thread 10 times.

And read the "5am is 5am" thread. I have a feeling from their posting patterns that one of our aquatic mammals is US based, so while you lot have been running yourselves ragged, they've been happily typing away early evening, pile of ever growing fresh fish at their elbow.

And please, don't let them invade this thread. Talk round em, leave thread for a week or so, but do not give them fish. They'll keep coming back for more.

TyroBurningDownTheCloset · 16/10/2020 08:44

Adding 'check out Brighton thread' to my list of things to do today, which also includes buying bananas - DD has decided tomorrow she would like to make WBH with chocolate chip weetabix minis. Will it be improved by the addition of chocolate, or will it be a special new flavour of concrete hell? Only time will tell...

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 16/10/2020 08:46

You've let me down, you've let Germaine down, and most of all you've let yourselves down

😀

CaraDuneRedux · 16/10/2020 08:48

Tyro first 3 or 4 pages should get you any actual info you need, don't waste your time on the rest.

Chocolate milk banana Weetabix.. what fresh hell is this?

TyroBurningDownTheCloset · 16/10/2020 09:20

I don't care how hellish it is if it results in the child eating a banana. She was born fruitphobic. It is just chocolate chips thoygh, not actual chocolate milk. A line must be drawn somewhere.

I'd already read the first pages, my bookmark took me right to les buggeures risible. It was informative, although possibly not in the way certain posters might hope!

ErrolTheDragon · 16/10/2020 09:47

Chocolate chip weetabix and banana sounds nice - presumably though just with cold milk, and eaten quickly enough that they don't get all soggy?

TyroBurningDownTheCloset · 16/10/2020 10:00

Alas, it will be mushed and microwaved by madam herself.

(Should I have put a trigger warning before that?)

I'm looking on the bright side: this will provide an excellent teaching opportunity in the field of Washing Up.

CaraDuneRedux · 16/10/2020 10:09

@TyroBurningDownTheCloset

Alas, it will be mushed and microwaved by madam herself.

(Should I have put a trigger warning before that?)

I'm looking on the bright side: this will provide an excellent teaching opportunity in the field of Washing Up.

Microwaves Weetabix? You're gonna need a karcher for that!
TyroBurningDownTheCloset · 16/10/2020 10:15

No, no, again it's a Valuable Educational Opportunity. She has actually expressed a desire to have a go at cleaning the microwave; might as well give herself plenty to work with.

Gronky · 16/10/2020 10:30

It is just chocolate chips thoygh, not actual chocolate milk. A line must be drawn somewhere.

I'm trying this at the next opportunity and I'm disappointed that the nascent potential was sitting on the shelf the whole time, completely unexploited. Hopefully, it's as good as chocolate cornflakes used to be.

littlbrowndog · 16/10/2020 10:35

I sinned cara. But went to bed early.

I really hate weetabix served any way. That stuff sticks to plates like super glue. Imagine it in your tummy

It sticks to babies eyelashes and hair like cement

ErrolTheDragon · 16/10/2020 10:50

@TyroBurningDownTheCloset

No, no, again it's a Valuable Educational Opportunity. She has actually expressed a desire to have a go at cleaning the microwave; might as well give herself plenty to work with.
I'm now curious as to how old and how bored this child is.Grin
Kit19 · 16/10/2020 11:14

@CaraDuneRedux

Good morning fellow Bunburyists.

I go to bed leaving at a sensible time then get up to find you've all stayed up way past your bedtimes feeding the aquatic mammals.

You've let me down, you've let Germaine down, and most of all you've let yourselves down. Wink

Go and copy out the OP of this thread 10 times.

And read the "5am is 5am" thread. I have a feeling from their posting patterns that one of our aquatic mammals is US based, so while you lot have been running yourselves ragged, they've been happily typing away early evening, pile of ever growing fresh fish at their elbow.

And please, don't let them invade this thread. Talk round em, leave thread for a week or so, but do not give them fish. They'll keep coming back for more.

thiisssss

oh for a mute button on mumsnet! how lovely threads would be.......

in other news DH has discovered that I actually like all bran as a cereal and is reconsidering his life choices "its just shredded cardboard!"

ErrolTheDragon · 16/10/2020 11:23

in other news DH has discovered that I actually like all bran as a cereal and is reconsidering his life choices "its just shredded cardboard!"

It's not nice, and I never want to have to eat it again, but all bran with sliced banana was an essential of life during pregnancy. Female reproductive biology can even affect breakfast cereal choices.

TyroBurningDownTheCloset · 16/10/2020 11:37

Young enough to still find cleaning an exciting novelty! Which reminds me, she wanted to have a go at dusting the fireplace too; I'd better fish out an old sock in readiness.

Moonbasealpha · 16/10/2020 12:20

And please, don't let them invade this thread. Talk round em, leave thread for a week or so, but do not give them fish. They'll keep coming back for more.

Do you not think that’s a bit controlling? Trying to direct who can and who can’t post on which threads?

ErrolTheDragon · 16/10/2020 12:22

@TyroBurningDownTheCloset

Young enough to still find cleaning an exciting novelty! Which reminds me, she wanted to have a go at dusting the fireplace too; I'd better fish out an old sock in readiness.
And maybe quietly remove any breakables?Grin
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 16/10/2020 12:34

@ErrolTheDragon

in other news DH has discovered that I actually like all bran as a cereal and is reconsidering his life choices "its just shredded cardboard!"

It's not nice, and I never want to have to eat it again, but all bran with sliced banana was an essential of life during pregnancy. Female reproductive biology can even affect breakfast cereal choices.

When i was ‘recovering’ from having ds1 i was in a maternity home for 5 days!

Breakfast was a full english...every morning

But you had to eat a bowl of all bran first 😩

Winesalot · 16/10/2020 13:07

Breakfast was a full english...every morning

But you had to eat a bowl of all bran first 😩

Any wonder that they prescribed bran with a full English every morning!

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 16/10/2020 13:12

You should have seen lunch and tea wines 😀

DeaconBoo · 16/10/2020 13:19

I'll try a lot of things but I'll be perfectly happy to get to the end of my life never having tried All-Bran!

ArabellaScott · 16/10/2020 16:18

I used to like Oatibix, before they tried to make it interesting.

boatyardblues · 16/10/2020 17:21

Anyone else find All Bran kinda scratchy to eat? It makes my mouth feel odd, like I need a good swill of juice after. I guess scratchiness is the point of it.

nauticant · 16/10/2020 17:26

I suppose the scrubbing action is intended to be beneficial a bit further on in its journey.

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