@dolorsit
Datun I have to admit it is a bit of a hobby horse of mine.
I love a well referenced discussion and get exceedingly grumpy when links don't say what is claimed.
I know what you mean, and I agree.
Having said that, of late, I have decided that women should not have to reference statistics, male violence patterns, attacks already occurring, general sexism and misogyny.
We should just be able to say No.
It is, after all, as any mumsnetter will tell you, a complete sentence.