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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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CaptainKirksSpookyghost · 11/09/2019 22:24

Thinking about it, It's probably why you no longer have the mods openly interacting on threads anymore.

theyputagpinthewater · 11/09/2019 22:26

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RufusthebewiIderedreindeer · 11/09/2019 22:33

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RufusthebewiIderedreindeer · 11/09/2019 22:33

Or brains

No offence joss....i dont have the brains either

RufusthebewiIderedreindeer · 11/09/2019 22:35

Or the erudite...ness

Again no offence joss...neither do i

LangCleg · 11/09/2019 22:44

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Inebriati · 11/09/2019 22:44

Other posters have met Lass in real life meetups so no.

theyputagpinthewater · 11/09/2019 22:47

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theyputagpinthewater · 11/09/2019 22:48

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Aberhonddu · 11/09/2019 22:48

@ theyputagpinthewater*
Lass/maugerita is a Joss Prior sock account

Oh do fuck off dear.

@MargueritaBlue

From a lurker, please don't go. I've been reading these boards for about 2 years and I do appreciate your acerbic and cutting comments. I really hope you'll stay and continue to add your unique views

theyputagpinthewater · 11/09/2019 22:49

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ErrolTheDragon · 11/09/2019 22:50

Or the dress sense (Lass pointed me to a beautiful dress site once, unfortunately I'm too short for them)

theyputagpinthewater · 11/09/2019 22:50

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BarbaraStrozzi · 11/09/2019 22:51

Only one person calls Lang "Cleggy" (a multiply PBP). Which makes it particularly weirdly self-referential for that same poster to accuse Lass of being one of their own socks. It's all going a bit meta round here.

theyputagpinthewater · 11/09/2019 22:51

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theyputagpinthewater · 11/09/2019 22:53

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TinselAngel · 11/09/2019 22:54

I'm LangCleg and so's my wife.

BarbaraStrozzi · 11/09/2019 22:56

Tinsel Grin.

I wonder, does the sense of inadequacy that drives someone to repeatedly troll, get banned from, reregister, troll, get banned from... a single forum because they don't like the idea of women airing ideas they disagree with... does that sense of inadequacy extend to other areas of their life?

Asking for Oflang a friend.

LangCleg · 11/09/2019 22:59

I'm LangCleg and so's my wife.

So's mine.

TinselAngel · 11/09/2019 22:59

I don't know Barbara, but such a character would, I imagine, really dislike women.

Persifleur · 11/09/2019 22:59

Wtaf is going on here? Lass is OK. Frequently annoying (and we need annoying!) but OK.
OK?

RufusthebewiIderedreindeer · 11/09/2019 23:00

I agree barbara

Its honestly really sad

Im not even joking, I can’t imagine what sort of life someone must have to think this is big...or clever

LangCleg · 11/09/2019 23:00

Oh man, I got deleted.

I can't even remember what I said now.

Sorry!