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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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ErrolTheDragon · 06/09/2019 15:27

I'm trying to work out what DD means in this context as I'm assuming you didn't mean the usual MN acronym there!Grin

Hpv is now reckoned to cause cancers elsewhere inc oral I think (I'm not an hpc either) - I'm guessing it's various mucous membrane type things that are susceptible.

Melroses · 06/09/2019 16:06

There is probably an HPV for every surface Wink (also not an HCP)

LangCleg · 08/09/2019 14:40

Ahem.

Sea lions live in the sea. Jus' sayin'.

NeurotrashWarrior · 08/09/2019 18:47

Shit I think an attempt to dox JH. Please report.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 08/09/2019 18:48

A Sunday evening bump.

Ereshkigal · 08/09/2019 18:49

Yes I reported as soon as I saw.

NeurotrashWarrior · 08/09/2019 19:00

Yup gone now. That was speedy.

2BthatUnnoticed · 09/09/2019 19:40

💜💚

JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/09/2019 07:12

My god. I’m so tired of the same poster hijacking threads and dominating them with nonsense. If everyone keeps responding though...

JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/09/2019 09:22

Well ffs, I just got the chat back to uniforms and a certain poster had filibustered her way to 1000. Unbelievable

WrathoSWhlttIeKIop · 10/09/2019 09:27

Ffs.
A poster filibustering a thread.
Now why would anyone bother?

2BthatUnnoticed · 10/09/2019 09:41

I left the thread over that ... then went back which was a silly decision!

What is the motivation though? With the safeguarding, kink and lesbian threads, I get it - but school skirts?

2BthatUnnoticed · 10/09/2019 10:03

Errol sorry missed this earlier DD = due diligence Grin

ErrolTheDragon · 10/09/2019 10:15

I've never swum with dolphins, maybe that's why playing with sea lions off the south coast was irresistible?

Should have left it to Lass, she's a skilled contrarian on other topics. With the difference that when she disagrees with the majority view on FWR there's usually something worth thinking about.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/09/2019 10:25

Motivation is purely to stop us focusing on women and girls rights. Most of it was a ‘What about the poor boys’

LangCleg · 10/09/2019 10:39

The purpose is to take up our time and attention so that we are not posting useful stuff elsewhere.

2BthatUnnoticed · 10/09/2019 11:40

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

2BthatUnnoticed · 10/09/2019 11:45
JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/09/2019 12:24

Deleted why? Did you get an email warning you you have a strike?

JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/09/2019 12:25

How does that break talk guidelines? It’s just ridiculous

TruthOnTrial · 10/09/2019 12:28

There have been posts stating that brushing up against and touching has been happening [and women dont even know we're doing it] boasty, rapey type stuff too 2B. In womens single sex loos, I mean ran out of breath there

ErrolTheDragon · 10/09/2019 12:41

It would be useful to know what specifically was deemed wrong with that post, as I'm damned if I can see it.Confused

Would it have been ok if you'd stated it as 'in my experience' or 'I reckon' or 'it seems to me that therefore' ?

JessicaWakefieldSV · 10/09/2019 13:09

They just seem to me to be ignoring their own guidelines now. There’s no rule that post breaks.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 10/09/2019 13:27

A poster filibustering a thread

And that thread!

That would have died after a few posts

2BthatUnnoticed · 10/09/2019 13:34

I should mention that’s a paraphrase (not a quote) as I can’t remember exactly how I put it (might have to start screen shotting my own posts in case of deletion!) Shock But I was definitely fine on pronouns and
Natwalt.

Off the bed (different time zone) but I’ll try and find out what was delete worthy.

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