I don't think you have anything to apologise for, Mankyfoot . You brought a new development in the shit show that is Rachel McKinnon to everyone's attention. It is AF's post that has started the initial tangent from the main issue.
SarahJConnor bloody hell, people are just ignorant to the point of evil. I am Asian and I have had all sorts of assumptions that I am a gold digger/am willing to fuck a bloke 25 different ways as per the Karma Sutra and then will happily cook them a curry afterwards/ am demure and subservient (mostly from blokes who are of the woke variety); but your experiences and those of your mum - plain evil.