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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Cosmopolitan - Bleeding after anal sex

544 replies

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 03/02/2019 12:25

""It's not unexpected that [anal sex] would cause bleeding." Does that mean you should never put anything up your butt hole? No! It just means you need to take some extra precautions, like, say, a little thing called a shit-ton of lube"

"It's not a sprint, it's a marathon back there. And you want to make to the finish line without any bleeding or discomfort."

FFS

www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/amp9230630/is-bleeding-after-anal-sex-normal/?__twitter_impression=true

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Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 22:50

Fuckin hell if there are russian bots on here then angry is in a shedload of trouble

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 22:50

Or whatsisname, bloke who owns Chelsea? Still no.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 22:51

Are the penis and the vagina not designed (for want of a better word) for sexual intercourse then?

This is all news to me.

Doesn't mean people can't stick whatever wherever if they want but denial of penis vagina in sexual reproduction (the reason we have a sex drive as a species) is a bit weird.

Then again, biology is v unfadhionable these days.

Fwiw consent and especially protection are covered in things aimed at gay men why in earth wouldn't they be.

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 22:53

Fwiw consent and especially protection are covered in things aimed at gay men why in earth wouldn't they be.

A bit unintentionally revealing to assume they wouldn't be, honestly.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 22:54

I don't want to shag Vladimir Putin.

Now you all need to agree or disagree with me.

That's how this works now.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 22:55

angry

I certainly had the same consent/ anal chat with ds1

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 22:56

nothing

Ooooh new rules????

Awesome, i feel there arent enough FWR specific rules on here

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 22:56

Putin y/n is the new subject of the thread, apparently, since talking about anal being risky hurts people's feeling.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 22:58

Anyone who doesn't post that they don't want to shag him, wants to shag him

New rules sound much like the ones from primary school! You didn't say it ner nernenerner you fancy him!

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 23:00

Oh christ

In that case i do not want to shag putin!!!

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 23:01

angry wants to shag putin

angry wants to shag putin

angry wants to shag putin

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 23:01

😂😂😂

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 23:01

Autocorrect changed putin to put in

Which is funny

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 23:02

Im off to bed

And if i have dreams of shagging anyone i am blaming FWR

RepealTheGRA · 03/02/2019 23:02

Do all 12 million users now have to post confirming that they don’t want to slut drop for putin? If they don’t does the mail then get to run with the headline 99% of British mothers want to shag vlad?

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 23:07

I'm the one who said I didn't! And now Russian bots will be after me.

Autocorrect changed putin to put in

Do not put in. Especially not in the bum, but in Putin's case not anywhere else either.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 23:10

What does slut drop mean

Actually I don't want to know

I think new rules means just all the people on the thread
Even if they aren't following it any more

I note Elon has NOT denied wanting to shag Putin.

Interesting.

7Days · 03/02/2019 23:11

Putin. N

Datun · 03/02/2019 23:15

I don't want to shag Putin.

And I don't want anal sex.

This whole anal sex thing, which is unlikely to result in orgasm unless you're stimulating other bits at the same time?

How about the men give women an orgasm and they don't have one themselves, for a change?

It all seems to be very one-sided and culminating in the man climaxing and the woman compromising.

I don't imagine many men would even understand the concept of that being the other way around.

RepealTheGRA · 03/02/2019 23:15

I thought slut drop was a dance move, I also thought your arse was for shitting with, so I may be wrong.

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 23:17

So would you dance for an oligarch? No, not that either. And definitely not for Putin.

(Can't get the mental image of him shirtless on horseback out of my head. Trying too hard is so offputting.)

Datun · 03/02/2019 23:17

Who was that broadcaster going around asking men whether or not the last person they had sex with had an orgasm? And the answers ranged from I'm not sure, I think so, probably, to, I have no idea.

So her next question was well in that case how do you know when it was finished?

And to a man they said when I came.

Can you imagine the reaction if that was just switched round?

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 23:31

Re the enjoying it

The recent ish full picture of clitoris internally explained a lot.

It wraps around inside

Probably not in the exact same way for each woman

So that g spot stuff, remember that? Down to on some women it's stimulating the clit from inside

I'm happy to believe some women enjoy anal

Prob can stimulate clit + sensitive area

Liking a bit of action in that area but much smaller than a penis isn't uncommon

So I am happy to believe some women genuinely like it and some can orgasm

However

That's totally irrelevant to the objections to the article

No mention std
Bleeding fine and normal
No mention consent
Only mention condoms briefly and not in protection context

The PP stuff about injury / damage, that is NEVER mentioned, in any article I have seen

WokerThanWoke · 03/02/2019 23:31

Just thought i’d share a piece of Pootz.

What channel was that on Datun?

Cosmopolitan - Bleeding after anal sex
NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 23:33

Datun that thing about the reporter, genius.

That is male entitlement, right there.

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