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Cosmopolitan - Bleeding after anal sex

544 replies

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 03/02/2019 12:25

""It's not unexpected that [anal sex] would cause bleeding." Does that mean you should never put anything up your butt hole? No! It just means you need to take some extra precautions, like, say, a little thing called a shit-ton of lube"

"It's not a sprint, it's a marathon back there. And you want to make to the finish line without any bleeding or discomfort."

FFS

www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/amp9230630/is-bleeding-after-anal-sex-normal/?__twitter_impression=true

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7Days · 03/02/2019 22:23

I agree that it would be long, angryAttackKittens but I disagree that it would be boring.

Who's next?

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 22:24

Oh sorry it wasn't the in out thing

It was because someone said anus is not designed for sex
You think it is?

This is some basic biology. To say the human anus is not designed for sex (hence needing to be v careful etc) isn't the same as saying its unnatural.

You seem to be implying that some posters are concerned due to religious beliefs and homophobia (unnatural in this context has historical power) yet no one has said it is unnatural.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 22:26

I agree that it would be both long and boring.

Who's next?

littlbrowndog · 03/02/2019 22:26

Och no nothing
They just being rajgy idiots

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 22:26

And I disagree with your disagreement, 7.

Incredibly boring 1000 comment threads for every topic!

ElonMask · 03/02/2019 22:27

Good, so there is nothing unnatural about anal sex ? Men and women should feel equally grateful towards or about their sexual partners ?

Agreed ?

Sexual instruction articles need to come with a preface about consent, not convinced.

littlbrowndog · 03/02/2019 22:29

Naw Elon
You kinda of avoiding questions about the original question yet again

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 22:31

Nothing says "I respect consent" like trying to browbeat people into agreeing with you.

ElonMask · 03/02/2019 22:33

The grateful thing I objected to because you were saying they were grateful because you are attractive. If a woman is not considered attractive, should perhaps she be the one who feels grateful?

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ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 03/02/2019 22:34

Sexual instruction articles need to come with a preface about consent

No sexual instruction articles need to not tell women that a bit of bleeding and tearing is absolutely fine, nothing to worry about, and you shouldn't stop doing anal.

Anal seems to come up quite frequently in magazines now, which is not to my taste but fine. What is not fine is telling women that they should accept they will be physically hurt but not to worry about it.

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littlbrowndog · 03/02/2019 22:34

The original question Elon

IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 03/02/2019 22:35

Its an exit not an entry. End of .

ElonMask · 03/02/2019 22:37

I'm not sure what questions Im being asked anymore. No part of anyone's body is "designed". No orifice in a man's body is evolved to accept a penis, we dont expect gay magazines to come with yellow stickers on them.

The wider point is that this magazine is by and for women, men have no interest in it.

NothingOnTellyAgain · 03/02/2019 22:38

I agree aak

Who's next?

littlbrowndog · 03/02/2019 22:38

And every single time Elon you do not address what the thread is about
Every single time

CreakyBlinder · 03/02/2019 22:39

Haven't read the full thread but in a shop today I saw Cosmo and one of the front page stories was something like:

Sex with Oligarchs: would YOU slut drop for Grandpa?

AngryAngry

I was going to take a pic and tweet them but I really didn't want to bring my 9 year old daughters attention to it.

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 22:39

I agree, littlebrowndog, and would add that I find it irritating.

Who's next?

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 22:39

Sex with Oligarchs: would YOU slut drop for Grandpa?

You can't even parody this kind of bollocks.

IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 03/02/2019 22:41

Good for @starzig enjoying anal.

However as a nurse with 20 plus years the number of men/women i have met who are faecally incontinent due to anal sex is enormous.

I dont see that info being relayed to vulnerable young girls/ women in these articles.

It is something I however will be explaining to my DD.

littlbrowndog · 03/02/2019 22:42

Cripes
Thank god no one can afford mags anymore

littlbrowndog · 03/02/2019 22:46

They just doing click bait stuff now but am fecked If I know who,would want to, read it
I can’t think of any age group wanting to,reaD that stuff
Least take a break would be entertaing cos you could mock the shit out off it

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 22:48

They are bloody expensive arent that lttlbrown

And full of adverts....and generally pants

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 22:49

I did talk to dd about anal sex the other day

She got a bit upset and said 'ITS A FIRST DATE'

Never too early love, never too early

AngryAttackKittens · 03/02/2019 22:49

I will pay you precisely zero pounds for a magazine full of ads that wants me to shag Vladimir Putin.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 03/02/2019 22:50
Shock

What?? He needs to advertise?