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Why are femnists such doormats?

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DJLippy · 15/07/2018 22:07

Firstly, please excuse the clickbait title.

I was wondering if anybody else shared my personal experience in that the most vocal feminists I've known have been treated like shit by men. Not before they became feminists but during and throughout their feminism.

I've lost count of the amount of women for whom the personal is definitely not political. I can hardly speak myself. If I had to describe my type it would be 'secret dickhead type.'

Are feminists more prone to dickhead type men or are we just more aware of the dickhead behavior of our men? Is it causal?

Do feminists love bastards?

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TallulahWaitingInTheRain · 15/07/2018 23:03

Must admit to having had my share of dickheads but have also noted a direct (positive) correlation over time between the quality of my feminist analysis and the vehemence of my refusal to tolerate misogyny under my own roof

Original poster
DJLippy · 15/07/2018 23:06

There are certain men who's entire MO is - subjugation of strong women. See Mike Tyson.

I am not making any value judgments here I just think that it should be explored.

Do feminists love bad boys?
OR
Do bad boys create feminists?

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Original poster
DJLippy · 15/07/2018 23:07

^OR do bad boys love feminists? (i.e. a challenge)

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BlackForestCake · 15/07/2018 23:08

I see a lot of women who are not consciously feminists having shitty relationships with shitty men. And then they just assume that’s what men are like.

I am not sure that feminists are more likely to be treated badly by men. They are just more aware of what is going on when it does happen.

AnyFucker · 15/07/2018 23:11

Are you drunk ?

littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:12

Neither dj.

Original poster
DJLippy · 15/07/2018 23:13

Are you drunk ?

Yes. A bit.

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littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:13

Lols haha

Original poster
DJLippy · 15/07/2018 23:13

What is wrong with this thread?

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littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:14

U cool then dj

thebewilderness · 15/07/2018 23:14

I think it significant that men assume that any woman with the confidence of a mediocre male is a Feminist.
Some women also make this assumption.

littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:15

Naw jus5 cos u drunk and asking shite questions. Culd be worse lols

littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:16

Then u getting the classy answers lols. Go to ur bed and ave the good sleep

LangCleg · 15/07/2018 23:19

Dog! I was trying to do proper answers and now you are making me laugh too hard!

Original poster
DJLippy · 15/07/2018 23:19

U drunk Dog?

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littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:21

Getting there. Been long day of the sport. 😘🍺🍺🍺🍺

Original poster
DJLippy · 15/07/2018 23:22

Did we win?

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LassWiADelicateAir · 15/07/2018 23:23

Littlbrowndog

Dj lippy tink on. Wat u said was shite. Simple shite

I'm kind of impressed that your phone can't spell "little", "think" or "what" but has "shite" correct twice. !

AnyFucker · 15/07/2018 23:24

Paracetamol and a pint of water for everyone before bed

Dr AF prescribes it

littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:25

Am Scottish shite always right. Me best mate Irish. We always do the tink

littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:26

Also me iPad a total arsed.

littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:26

Arse

Original poster
DJLippy · 15/07/2018 23:27

Also effervescent vitamin C

And also not sucking any secret dickheads...

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ErrolTheDragon · 15/07/2018 23:27

You just made me snort out loud.

littlbrowndog · 15/07/2018 23:28

Feck U right anyfucker
Off to me pit. Wit the drug painkillers