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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbians react to London Pride

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garam · 08/07/2018 19:28

Some very passionate responses from the lesbian community, since the anti-trans protests.

When Jennifer James pushed to sue the labour party, the result was the labour party clarified it's position as self-id for AWS

This has a similar ring to it, as the anti-trans protesters tried to co-opt the lesbian community, there has been a vocal backlash and clarification of support for trans people.

There's a hashtag to check out... twitter.com/hashtag/LWithTheT?src=hash

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LangCleg · 08/07/2018 23:24

Oh deary me. I'm still laughing!

Also funny: 8 women among 30,000 people saying NO and look at the furore! Women rock.

YourMajestyJ · 08/07/2018 23:25

pombear

It's actually quite disturbing.

I along with many others have engaged with transgender people on Twitter who have told us they have been raped or sexually assaulted. No matter how angry we were, we always expressed our empathy for them.

But then, women are the more empathetic sex.

Datun · 08/07/2018 23:25

oi oi is going to take flight, I can feel it

pombear · 08/07/2018 23:27

And for potential screengrabbers out there, I used 'people' in ' ', not because I am erasing humans, but because I was avoiding using other words we cannot use!

ErrolTheDragon · 08/07/2018 23:28

Yes, once you've got a NN it's yours for keeps. Just don't swap midthread without saying so in case you're accused of sock puppeting. (Well, unless it's clearly for comedic purposes, e.g. like in Mortificado where there were far fewer posters than NNs I'm sure)

pombear · 08/07/2018 23:29

Yes, YourMaj (hope you don't mind the shortening!) I agree that empathy seems to be in short shrift in one direction of this ongoing two-way discussion.

CrustyCob · 08/07/2018 23:33

www.etsy.com/listing/577163424/get-the-l-out-of-lgbt-32mm-feminist
oi oi
badges!

Floorplan · 08/07/2018 23:34

This was a most disturbing thread. The links lead me to see things I wish I hadn't. The mysogeny and lesbophobia were terrifying and I really didnt realise quite how sick the transcult is. Why is MN letting this happen? Is this what Justine dreamt about when she set up this whole site? Women being belittled like this, lesbians being criticised for their sexulity. It's a bloody disgrace. She should be ashamed. She's created a fucking monster.

TheMostBeautifulDogInTheWorld · 08/07/2018 23:37

GC feminists did have a point with self ID but now after the Pride shenanigans all people will see is unapologetic transphobia

I have yet to see a clearer (if unintended) statement of just what a brilliantly powerful protest those ten women achieved. Ten women, ten minutes, and the whole of TRAlaland is in utter panic.

LeiaTheSlaya · 08/07/2018 23:39

I have yet to see a clearer (if unintended) statement of just what a brilliantly powerful protest those ten women achieved. Ten women, ten minutes, and the whole of TRAlaland is in utter panic.

This. It's so obvious isn't it?

boatyardblues · 08/07/2018 23:44

(Well, unless it's clearly for comedic purposes, e.g. like in Mortificado where there were far fewer posters than NNs I'm sure)

Did you just erase half my family? (I have a Mortificado alter ego, which I would have resurrected to post this if only I could remember my MN password...)

UglyCathKidstonBag · 08/07/2018 23:44

I wish I didn’t but I feel so crushed having shared my experience to be met with Daim’s appalling posts. I feel sickened.

boatyardblues · 08/07/2018 23:45

Cath Flowers

pombear · 08/07/2018 23:46

Cath I recognise you sharing your experience, and thank you for doing so, and I'm sorry that happened to you.

I think it's a fruitless exercise in this case, but I'm sure most of us recognised what you were saying and, in a way, your experience of sharing highlighted the issue I referred to later on.

Datun · 09/07/2018 00:01

UglyCathKidstonBag

You're not alone in your experience.

One of the really excellent outcomes of the entire debate over trans issues is the number of women who are waking up to feminism.

I genuinely believe that these debates, although painful, are so informative and vital for raising awareness over feminist issues.

Not just self ID, etc, but the general misogyny that's woven in our society.

Flowers I hear you.

YourMajestyJ · 09/07/2018 00:13

Rape culture.

Lesbians react to London Pride
Ereshkigal · 09/07/2018 00:44

have yet to see a clearer (if unintended) statement of just what a brilliantly powerful protest those ten women achieved. Ten women, ten minutes, and the whole of TRAlaland is in utter panic.

Yes Smile

LurkingBee · 09/07/2018 00:49

Cath
Thank you for speaking out.Flowers
My good friend, a lesbian, has never recovered from what happened her.
She is regularly under the care of the crisis team, self harms, and has suicidal ideation.
I wish I could say more, but it is not my story to tell.
I'm disgusted by the comments here from someone who purports to be a lesbian. The lack of insight, and coldness of heart, tells us everything.

Floorplan · 09/07/2018 00:54

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Floorplan · 09/07/2018 00:54

CathFlowers

thebewilderness · 09/07/2018 01:04

I wish I didn’t but I feel so crushed having shared my experience to be met with Daim’s appalling posts. I feel sickened.
I am so sorry. That is why they do it, but still it hurts.

Ereshkigal · 09/07/2018 01:09

Cath Thanks I can't post what I really think about certain posters or I would be deleted.

NewbieSpartacus · 09/07/2018 01:28

Am confused because I thought I was straight but didn't like my gender roles which makes me trans but recently I find myself falling more and more in love with littlbrowndog every day so surely that makes me more of a lesbian than daim

ArcheryAnnie · 09/07/2018 01:32

the majority of lesbians are saying no!

Citation needed, OP.

Abouttoblow · 09/07/2018 01:33

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