Crisp, honestly I have met the most amazing and impressive trans people at these meetings who have shared their experience and views openly.
Debbie Hayton, I met her in the pub after a meeting in London, she totally understands the balance of mutual respect, I follow half a dozen transwomen on Twitter who are a joy to listen to.
I have a transwoman friend of 27 years, whose kids went to school with mine, whose art is on my wall. I mean do you think that's hate?
It's so sad you are making this into a zero sum game, winners and losers. That's not the intention. No-one wants a Trump world. We are listening to you, you are being heard. Trans rights are human rights. Badly enacted law helps no-one.