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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

To any trans activists reading this forum

160 replies

yetanothertranswoman · 01/04/2018 20:15

Fuck off fucking life up for those trans people trying to live our lives.

I heard about some of the stuff people like you got up to but I've had my eyes opened today. Seriously opened.

Stop talking about lady penises.
Stop saying you are a woman.
Stop demanding women be quiet when they raise concerns about what's happening.
Stop harassing woman online
Stop intimidating women trying to speak about their concerns.
Stop initimidating women trying to do a clothes swap.
Stop demanding access to female spaces and just saying "It will be ok"
Stop taking women's spaces as women's officers when you haven't got a fucking clue about life as a woman.

All you are fucking doing is making life more difficult for the rest of us and scaring the shit out of women.

Yes - trans people exist. Some of us have gender dysphoria which is bloody hard to live with. Some people just seem to think that putting on a skirt is enough to make you 'a woman'.

Are you capable of thinking about women and their concerns? All I've seen online is people saying it will be ok.

No - trans people are not the enemy. But there are some trans people and trans activists who scare the shit out of me with their demands and their behaviour.

I've tried to keep my head low and keep out of all this. But no more.

You don't speak for me and you don't speak for many trans people out there.

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InfiniteSheldon · 01/04/2018 20:16
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QueenOfThorns · 01/04/2018 20:17

Well said, thank you.

QuentinSummers · 01/04/2018 20:18

FlowersWine

Teacuphiccup · 01/04/2018 20:18
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ReappearingWoman · 01/04/2018 20:19
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cornflakegirl · 01/04/2018 20:19

Thank you

Thanksforthatamazingpost · 01/04/2018 20:19
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SunsetBeetch · 01/04/2018 20:20
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yetanothertranswoman · 01/04/2018 20:20

And if you're an equalities person in the Green party or Labour, then blocking trans people who disagree with your opinions is a really stupid move.

Yes - Lily Madigan.

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concretesieve · 01/04/2018 20:23
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pickledparsnip · 01/04/2018 20:23

Thank you Gin

gingergenius · 01/04/2018 20:23

Thanks and Gin and Wine xxx

Barbadosgirl · 01/04/2018 20:23

Awesome post, OP

Etino · 01/04/2018 20:25
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Belonger · 01/04/2018 20:25
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Hypermice · 01/04/2018 20:25

Yup. With you on this one OP. Well said.

fannyfelcher · 01/04/2018 20:26

I am all for people wearing whatever they want, shagging whomever they choose and generally living their own way as long as they do not hurt anybody else and it is all consenting. But I do still do a double take everytime I see "lady penis".

What I do not understand is - if gender is a social construct, ie, in the head......why do penises even need to be involved at all? wear a frock or Y fronts or whatever. But if you have a hose to drain, you go in the male toilets and if you have a lettuce, you go shake it in the female space. BIOLOGY= what your DNA says. Gender, nobody really is bothered.

Could you imagine if you took your car to be fixed and a mechanic tried to repair it with two bolts and no nuts because "one bolt is a male bolt and the other has decided it has lady parts now, because it chooses that-despite it being exactly the same".

No, no it is not.

SecretsRsecrets · 01/04/2018 20:27

Thank you @yetanothertranswoman FlowersWine

Solidarity

tygr · 01/04/2018 20:28

I want to share a link to this post to a political party I'm a member of who's fellow members ridiculed me when I referenced Mumsnet and what I said were valid women's concerns. I'm actually too scared to do it as the matter seems to have died down and I don't want to stir it up again. This is why having your voice heard is so important.

PsychoPumpkin · 01/04/2018 20:29

Yes! Thank you for this wonderful post, OP!!

DaisyDrip · 01/04/2018 20:29

Flowers Thank you!

RawhideRingpiece · 01/04/2018 20:31

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DamnDeDoubtanceIsSpartacus · 01/04/2018 20:31

Thanks for sticking your head over the parapetFlowers

auntycartmanslargertesticle · 01/04/2018 20:31

Thank you. Flowers

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