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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

How to make love to a trans woman

286 replies

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:08

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

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PositivelyPERF · 22/03/2018 13:17

*Howyoualldoworkme

A pearl necklace?*

Oh fuck. That sent me over! 🤪

NothingTraLaLa · 22/03/2018 13:18

I keep my vagina in the fridge to keep it fresh.

Probably why I'm frigid tbh.

poorbuthappy · 22/03/2018 13:19

I think we all acknowledged a while ago that the way to get the general public support on this issue was to wait for the TRAs to go for the straight man.

SuckingEggs · 22/03/2018 13:19

Such a load of utter fucking bollocks. Pun intended. Disgraceful.

And ‘cis’ can fuck off.

Datun · 22/03/2018 13:30

This, though... this has become all about sex and the fetishisation of women. They don't bear any resemblance to any woman I've ever met and to be honest their physical appearances are the last of my worries - they just don't share any of the beliefs or concerns any woman I know shares.

^^ this.

At first I thought the fetishists were in the minority and not something to be overly concerned with, despite them being repugnant.

But I've done a complete 180. They are not the minority.

People far more technically savvy and me, make a point of drilling down into TRAs, TIMS making the most noise, the famous ones, the ones who are openly usurping women.

And this is what they find.

The men with gender dysphoria, transsexuals, Truscum, whatever you like to call them, simply aren't motivated in this highly sexualised way.

There's nothing to find, nothing to be revealed.

But they are few and far between, and the balance has massively tipped.

When people like Lees get invited onto TV, here, there and everywhere to spout their opinions, and yet they talk about women in the way they do, you know where it's coming from. It's no longer speculation.

GruffaloPants · 22/03/2018 13:33

That Paris Lees article - what a load of made up shite. All the wetness talk. Only real vaginas get wet on their own. Unless we are talking cum from a ladydick Hmm

Ellenripleysalienbaby · 22/03/2018 13:34

The Paris Lees article is even more fucked up when you consider that PL still has a penis.

gingergenius · 22/03/2018 13:35

I can't cope with any more of this misogynistic CRAP!!!

GruffaloPants · 22/03/2018 13:35

Thinking back to the first one, surely if women are saggy old frigid lumpy sacks then that's what transwomen should aspire to?

GruffaloPants · 22/03/2018 13:36

Not really @Ellenripleysalienbaby, it reads like something a slightly desperate 16yo gay boy might write!

Howyoualldoworkme · 22/03/2018 13:37

Does she??Shock
I suppose I shouldn't be surprised but I thought she'd actually made the effort.
Fantastic post Datun Really makes you think.

SunsetBeetch · 22/03/2018 13:47

That is absolutely fucking vile.

Mummyoflittledragon · 22/03/2018 13:56

That Paris lees article is bizarre considering they still have a penis. You can get wet in between your legs unless it’s sweaty balls. And What vagina?

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 14:04

Oh my god, lees still has a penis? What was she blathering on about in her article then?

I’m the whole article read like she was having penetrative (vaginal, not anal) sex.

Weird.

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Greenyogagirl · 22/03/2018 14:06

They do have better proportioned bodies and are better in bed.
If you’re a gay man.

However if you are not a gay man then I’m pretty sure you’d prefer a woman.

Ellenripleysalienbaby · 22/03/2018 14:25

If you read that Paris Lees article carefully though (yuk) it seems they have been careful not to actually write anything which suggests they have a vagina.

Normally I wouldn't give a fuck what is between someone's legs or who they do what with, but when that person is lecturing women about how to be sexy and what constitutes good sex, and some of that consists of things like 'being rammed like a champ', having a random bloke come over and jizz all over you at a party, or being grabbed by the throat, as if this is all healthy stuff that women should be enjoying otherwise they are missing out, then yes, it does fucking matter actually.

RedToothBrush · 22/03/2018 14:27

Is this all just extreme peacocking?

This is an extract from a website I won't link to:

Peacocking is a term used by pickup artists (PUA's) to describe the act of wearing bright, flashy, attention getting clothing. This was made famous by Mystery ( the pickup artist most known for his VH1 show 'The Pickup Artist) as part of his 'Mystery Method' for attracting and seducing women. Mystery is known for taking this strategy to the extreme where he and his understudies would be seen wearing shiny shirts, light-up jewelry, feather boas, colorful cowboy hats, goggles, 5-inch platform boots, and anything else to make a PUA stand out in the crowd.

The theory behind peacocking is that the more attention one can draw to them self, the easier it will be to grab the attention of women and ultimately attract and seduce them. It is also said that the act of wearing such outrageous accessories and pieces creates the perception of confidence and comfort with ones self image. Someone who is not afraid to stand out in the crowd and be different is someone that most women will find attractive.

Peacocking taken to these extremes is not for everyone. A lot of people find it to be a cheesy and corny way to attract the attention of women, but no one can dispute its effectiveness as the results speak for themselves. I am not one to engage in this type of peacocking, but there are definitely some lessons to be learned here. I prefer to use a scaled down version of peacocking, wearing clothes and jewelry that are interesting and eye catching, but are not too out of the norm. Wearing bracelets, chains, dog tags, interesting patterns, unique colors, and hats are a great way to stand out while not looking ridiculous. Many PUA's refer to these kinds of items as conversational pieces. I have personally experienced this where girls would actually open me with questions or comments about what I was wearing. When you actually have women coming to you instead of you going to them it makes pickup a hell of a lot easier. Peacocking is something that should be individualized and limited to things you feel comfortable wearing. How are you going to handle talking to women when you feel like an idiot wearing something that makes you uncomfortable? Whether you decide to wear outrageous clothes and accessories or try the more scaled down version, you will definitely see an improvement in your ability to attract and pickup women.

If you don't think that any of this is for you, well I have one question for you... WHY?! There is probably a reason you are reading this and that is because you are SINGLE and LONELY. If you keep doing the same things you are going to keep getting the same results. It is time for you to make a change in your life and take control of your own destiny. If you are tired of going home ALONE well now is the time to learn the behaviors of an alpha male.

Janie143 · 22/03/2018 14:47

I know an ago He calls bum hole vagina and penis clit

Janie143 · 22/03/2018 14:49

*AGP

Terfragette69 · 22/03/2018 14:55

The sad fact for transwomen is this.... The vast majority of straight men would prefer a woman with all her saggy bits and old vaginas over ANY trans woman with a fake vagina and fake breasts. What they fail to understand is that pheromones are hard wired onto attraction and sex and no amount of trans chanel No bollocks is going to change that.

PollyBanana · 22/03/2018 15:00

"better proportioned"
An Adam's Apple balances the stunner boobs nicely?

TheDishRanAwayWithTheSpoon · 22/03/2018 15:19

Paris Lee's article reads like it was written by a teenage virgin. It's definitely complete bullshit.
The first article again I reckon they've never actually met a real woman. They've certainly blocked out any meeting with real women

TheDishRanAwayWithTheSpoon · 22/03/2018 15:21

If transwomen are women then an article about how to sleep with them is pointless because they are no different to other women.

vesuvia · 22/03/2018 15:24

Quote from the article linked by the OP: "Women who have had Vaginoplasty have a surgically implanted vagina that is fresh and may feel better than that of a cis-women."

Note the author's opinion that there are two types of women: women (i.e. transgender-identifying males) and cis-women (biologically females). Are the women who don't have a problem with "cis" because it allegedly gives equal validity to how men and women express their womanhood, still OK with this?

A difference between women and transgender-identifying males is not the "freshness" of our vaginas, it is the "existence" of our vaginas: women have vaginas and trans-identifying males do not have vaginas.

Goldmonday · 22/03/2018 15:25

Perhaps they don't realise that the pheromones associated with being a real woman, and the pheromones associated with the ability to bear a child will always trump a plastic vagina and willingness to have anal sex.

No amount of hormones and surgeries will take that away.

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