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How to make love to a trans woman

286 replies

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:08

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

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Terfragette69 · 22/03/2018 10:54

CaptainCardamom

They are basically saying real women are fat, saggy with unpleasant old vagina', it's thoroughly disgusting!

SilverySurfer · 22/03/2018 10:55

I don't think utter misogynistic bullshit even begins to cover this tripe. I am so sick of reading about trans stuff because I don't give a damn how anyone lives their life but it should not be allowed to impact on real (refuse to use cis) women in what should be women's safe spaces, women's prisons, women's sports and their lives in general.

Idontdowindows · 22/03/2018 10:55

I remember being blocked by Owen Jones on Twitter

He was fulminating that lesbians who wouldn't suck trans cock were transphobes, but when I asked him when the last time was he had licked a transman's clit he blocked me for homophobia......

Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:55

Women are the gate keepers to sexual intercourse.

It's men who have made the rules regarding sexual intercourse.

Melamin · 22/03/2018 10:55

Why can't a woman be more like a man?

Collidascope · 22/03/2018 10:56

It's hilarious. I particularly liked this bit:

Sex with Trans women who have not had the surgery is different, and it really helps if you are bisexual. If you are not, then this is the best chance for you to try. Anal sex rates among the top sexual fantasies of all men, and this is the perfect opportunity for you to indulge in that fantasy. It is, however, different from homosexual sex as you are having sex with a woman.

Now, why, I wonder, is it helpful to be bisexual given you're having sex with a woman?? Hmmm. And "best chance for you to try" what?? To become bisexual? Surely we're not going along the conversion by fucking route, are we?

ButchyRestingFace · 22/03/2018 10:56

"It is very possible that Trans women usually have better proportioned bodies than cis-women"

GrinGrinGrin

AjasLipstick · 22/03/2018 10:56

Lol!

Women who have had Vaginoplasty have a surgically implanted vagina that is fresh

What do they think ours are? Fucking fishy and stanky? Old?

Fresh indeed! But this is some crappy dating site. They've paid an amateur writer.

What a lot of old crap.

Original poster
PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:56

Hi Freudian, it’s good to hear men saying the same things that we are.

On Twitter I see a lot of men fawning over that lily character, shouting TERF at any woman that dares question her.

I’m worried for my kids too.

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Should1stayorshould1go · 22/03/2018 10:57

is it awful to say my first thought on reading the title was:
provide a mirror and narcissus will take care of himself

CaptainCardamom · 22/03/2018 10:57

There is a thing whereby some men are attracted to transvestite or transgender people who dress / look like women superficially but have a penis. And a sex industry in some places based on this.

I've never really understood it but presumed it was for men who find that whole idea appealing because they are basically bi or gay or unsure.

RJnomore1 · 22/03/2018 10:57

Hold on

Is this whole things actually about closeted gay men???

BeyondDeadlySiren · 22/03/2018 10:57

”They have a sexual appetite that very few cis-women can compete with”

Make your mind up - I thought they had a reduced sex drive which is why they’re totes never sexual predators...? Hmm

Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:58

Yes, I agree PsychoPumpkin There are a lot more bisexual people. They simply don't admit it. I studied Classics and bisexuality was probably more prevalent during Greek and Roman times than heterosexuality.

SusanBunch · 22/03/2018 10:58

Fucking hell. Love all the stereotypical ‘men have to take charge in the bedroom’ thing. Yes, because ALL women are clearly like that.

Obviously written by someone who has realised that nobody wants to have sex with him and is now trying to make out that they are really missing out.

Oh and having sex with a trans woman who has not had surgery is like having sex with a man. Full stop.

ButchyRestingFace · 22/03/2018 10:58

This is comedy gold though.

Obv written by a trans-woman who isn't getting any and probably never has.

mummmy2017 · 22/03/2018 10:59

Very curious. When you get a woman excited her body tells you and provided fluid to make this pleasurable how did the doctor reproduce this effect?

CaptainCardamom · 22/03/2018 10:59

Terfragette69 yes I know but what baffles me is how this person can't see that their argument isn't something they can possibly know. It's just flinging random cliched insults.

speakout · 22/03/2018 11:00

Hilarious.

Juells · 22/03/2018 11:00

men have to be gentle with these women, as they might not be used to their newly implanted vaginas

You can fuck women as roughly as you want, though. It's all they're good for.

It is very possible that Trans women usually have better proportioned bodies than cis-women

Oh, they so wanted to say Trans women 'usually have better bodies' but read the sentence back and thought maybe they'd better add the 'It is very possible...'

noeffingidea · 22/03/2018 11:03

Women are the gatekeepers to sexual intercourse. That isn't true in many societies where women have very little power or control over their own lives.
I don't think it's true of our society either. Everyone is their own gatekeeper, because consent is now seen as an intrinsic human right. That is what some people don't seem able to grasp - no one is obliged to have sex with any particular person, for any reason.

Freudian · 22/03/2018 11:04

PP,

Most men i think are genuinely worried about the issue. Some have been labelled homophobic for not wanting to sleep with "them"

Personally I'm concerned about men entering women's sport - my daughter kickboxes. Im also concerned about her right to female only spaces.
This is damaging our sons too, normalising mental illness and celebrating victim culture - will it be easier for him to find an oppression to tag onto rather than overcome, learn and succeed ?

RJnomore1 · 22/03/2018 11:04

If trans women have better bodies then women...

Then they have different bodies from women?

So they're not the same as women after all?

🤔

nauticant · 22/03/2018 11:04

Just bear in mind, the blogs being referred to are part of a transgender dating site, TransSingle.com, and as such they will include anything, however false or laughable it is, to get traffic.

picklemepopcorn · 22/03/2018 11:06

There is something very wrong with this sentence...

"Women who have had Vaginoplasty have a surgically implanted vagina that is fresh and may feel better than that of a cis-women. "

A lot of things in fact!

". Anal sex rates among the top sexual fantasies of all men, and this is the perfect opportunity for you to indulge in that fantasy. It is, however, different from homosexual sex as you are having sex with a woman."

How is this a woman?