Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

cis is an abusive term

425 replies

Horridemma · 14/02/2018 13:21

I don't want to be called a 'cis' nor referred to as 'cis' in any sort of patronising way. Not sure if I really understand but from the way it is bandied about it does not sound good.

I am a woman not a 'cis'

OP posts:
Thread gallery
9
mimibunz · 14/02/2018 13:22

Yep.

ShackUp · 14/02/2018 13:23

Yes, it's creating a category where none exists.

DonnyAndVladSittingInATree · 14/02/2018 13:24

Agreed and I wish MNHQ would take a stand on it and delete it as hate speech.

dantdmistedious · 14/02/2018 13:27

It's nonsense as far as I'm concerned. I am not cis.

I've also never come across it apart from here.

NotTerfNorCis · 14/02/2018 13:31

'Cis' is based on the assumption that biological women are just one type of women, and full of oppressor-privilege at that.

Bejazzled · 14/02/2018 13:33

I find it offensive. So many other terms are discouraged and/or deleted because someone finds them offensive so this should be the same.

BahHumbygge · 14/02/2018 13:38

Yes, it implies I accept my place as inferior in the gender hierarchy - I certainly do not. Applied to women, it's akin to being called underling or skivvy.

PipGirl404 · 14/02/2018 13:46

I thought cis just meant you are biologically a woman, as opposed to a transwoman?

Amyxmarie · 14/02/2018 13:46

Believe it or not, I actually first heard the term on South Park and thought it was a pisstake like all the made up words that the "gender fluid" and militants trans community shout about Grin

DonnyAndVladSittingInATree · 14/02/2018 13:48

I thought cis just meant you are biologically a woman, as opposed to a transwoman?

See?? Look what this shit is doing? Angry

No pipgirl the term for a biological adult female is woman.

JoyTheUnicorn · 14/02/2018 13:48

There is no need for a separate category for a group which makes up the majority.
It's yet another case of bending over backwards to accommodate a small group of people who would then, presumably, take over "woman" as their category.

DonnyAndVladSittingInATree · 14/02/2018 13:49

I didn’t even need to add biological there. There is only one kind of female.

StoatofDisarray · 14/02/2018 13:50

I find it offensive, too.

bakingdemon · 14/02/2018 13:50

Yes yes yes. I find it very offensive

PipGirl404 · 14/02/2018 13:50

If it's only the trans community that use the term cis, where is the offence coming from?
More than happy for someone to explain, as I'm honestly not seeing it?

Belindabauer · 14/02/2018 13:52

I agree yet it is creeping in. My teenage dd used the word, I put her straight.

PipGirl404 · 14/02/2018 13:52

I though male/female was always the used term for your sex, but man/woman is what you identify as... I can see why "cis" would not be needed in that instance?

I've never read much of the threads so I have no idea what the general consensus is on the trans community here, I'm not trying to sound thick/ignorant.

Elendon · 14/02/2018 13:52

If someone addressed me as a 'cis female' I would say to them that I find that term abusive and can they not use it again.

DonnyAndVladSittingInATree · 14/02/2018 13:53

If it's only the trans community that use the term cis, where is the offence coming from?

Trans people using it about non trans people. How can you not see the offence?

DonnyAndVladSittingInATree · 14/02/2018 13:55

Man/woman is what some people identify as. They don’t get to identify the rest of us according to their own preferences.

PipGirl404 · 14/02/2018 13:55

I'm starting to feel thick... I don't see the offence because we aren't trans people? Is this not just a fact?

DonkeySkin · 14/02/2018 13:55

Agree with what posters above say and I'd also add that 'cis' is intended to point to our vaginas. TIMs claim that it's rude to make assumptions about what's in their pants, but then they demand that we call ourselves 'cis', which points to what is in our pants by default. At all times we are supposed to refer to ourselves using a word that reminds people of our genital status, and the privilege we supposedly derive from it.

A wise poster here once translated 'cis woman' to mean 'the old-fashioned, cunty kind of woman', and that's exactly right. With the emphasis on cunt. Whenever a TRA or a handmaiden refers to 'cis women', that's what they mean. Those lowly and yet grossly overprivileged creatures with cunts.

DonnyAndVladSittingInATree · 14/02/2018 13:56

To be clear, I (female) don’t identify as a woman. I AM a woman.

BigDeskBob · 14/02/2018 13:56

"man/woman is what you identify as..."

So what do you call an adult human female?

PipGirl404 · 14/02/2018 13:58

I've maybe just not seen enough of the "bad" side of the trans community? Maybe I'm just not bothered about it? I just can't see the offence in it. I've never seen anyone demand I call myself a transwoman so I'll bow out on this one as I am clueless.