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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

If you've only recently 'peaked'....

388 replies

CisMyArse · 07/02/2018 17:17

...please could I ask exactly what was your lightbulb moment? What did you hear or read that pushed you to our alpine slopes?

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Alwaysinmyheart · 08/02/2018 12:19

So I just read that in America, there's another variation on cis. Apparently the 'correct' term for a 'Latina' is now 'Latinx'. WTF??

Agerbilatemycardigan · 08/02/2018 12:21

A man called Kimberly Nixon fought Vancouver Rape Relief for 12 years, over his "right" to counsel female victims of rape and domestic violence.

www.rapereliefshelter.bc.ca/shelter-movement/women-only-space/women-only-space

Agerbilatemycardigan · 08/02/2018 12:23

Several Canadians sent the rape centre one to me. They were utterly shocked and disgusted by his behaviour.

I've also been talking to several transwomen on Twitter who think that self ID is a terrible idea.

drspouse · 08/02/2018 12:57

Always No that is the correct way to refer to a MIXED group of men and women, or where you are not sure of the sex. It is to prevent women being subsumed under a masculine word, what with women not being male.

Juzza12 · 08/02/2018 13:46

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Efferlunt · 08/02/2018 14:12

I’ve lurked on here. I could see the robustness of some of the arguments but I thought trans people are a tiny tiny fraction of the population so is it really an issue? How likely is it that you find a trans person working in your local shelter or changing at your pool? I’ve only ever met one trans person irl and she was lovely.

But I hate the way the debate is being framed and how they are pushing for sweeping changes without any thought as to the effect on women. How they would eventually make the concept of women meaningless for the purposes of say crime reporting or fair pay or anything like that

MrWriter · 08/02/2018 15:01

Ive been following these threads for a while and it was mn and Lily Madigan that peak trans me, I cant believe the craziness and how most of the country dont seem to know about it.

TheGoalIsToStayOutOfTheHole · 08/02/2018 15:12

Yes, transsexual people are a tiny population. 'Transgender' though is much wider given it includes crossdressers and such

And self-ID (which businesses are adopting, and the government is considering making into actual law) means it will be any male person, coming to a changing room near you soon. Not transsexual people. Just any male who fancies it. Which I suspect, given how many male people are predators, will be a fairly large number taking advantage of this sillyness.

TheRollingCrone · 08/02/2018 15:20

I'd seen threads trending here, really didn't pay much attention.

It's only a few transexuals in dresses, I said, whats the worst that could happen?

Then my daughter watched the cbbc programme about a GNC child, and turned round and said "you can change sex if you want". Quickly educated her on that, came here understood gender as a social construct.
But I think it was reading the push to indoctrinate children/young adults and the complete lack of research. Then when on to read about how this has panned out in Canada/ USA.
To be honest I, ve had so many #peaktrans moments I'm sea sick.
GRA✔
AUTOGYNEPHILIA ✔
LILY MADIGAN✔
THE LABOUR PARTY✔
THE GREEN PARTY✔
THE COTTON CEILING✔
NO PLATFORMING #NODEBATE✔

I,ve just bought tickets for a woman's place uk meeting in Birmingham. I'm bringing my daughter she's 10 - I'm expecting a lot to go over her head. There was a time when I thought this fight is lost - but it's not. Women are mighty when we come together.

Callmejudith · 08/02/2018 15:23

And now my TIM FB friend has joined a women's soccer team. I would love to know what they really think.

theaveragewife · 08/02/2018 15:26

Taking a class in the history of feminism as a part of my masters. Past feminists were ridiculed, and a TRA came in to teach a class on the female penis.

I’ve found there are so many peaks - why stop at one?

Alwaysinmyheart · 08/02/2018 15:29

Well I've just emailed my MP to register my concerns, I urge you all to do the same, we have to do something!

theaveragewife · 08/02/2018 15:30

@TheRollingCrone see you in Birmingham!!

drspouse · 08/02/2018 15:31

My MP (Lab, female) has spoken about the plight of TIM in men's prisons. I'm not hopeful.

Alwaysinmyheart · 08/02/2018 15:31

feminism as a part of my masters. Past feminists were ridiculed, and a TRA came in to teach a class on the female penis

I can't believe I've actually read this!

HOW THE FUCK HAS THIS HAPPENED????Shock

theaveragewife · 08/02/2018 15:41

Yep - Warwick.

OvaHere · 08/02/2018 15:44

feminism as a part of my masters. Past feminists were ridiculed, and a TRA came in to teach a class on the female penis

Shock

I think I would have had to walk out (I realise there were probably valid reasons why you couldn't)

Alwaysinmyheart · 08/02/2018 15:45

Bloody hell, I went to Uni there, it wasn't like that in my day!

How on earth did the class react to being taught about a lady penis??

I don't think I'd have been able to stop myself from laughing out loud!!

Alwaysinmyheart · 08/02/2018 15:47

theaveragewife was there a power point presentation? Anything you can share with us?

Riverside2 · 08/02/2018 15:49

um
so what's to learn about "the female penis"?

theaveragewife · 08/02/2018 15:50

Everyone was pretty much silent, there was no discussion. The lecture ended on a PowerPoint screen of pink sperm.

The ‘lecturer’ seemed to enjoy pointing out that she suffers from morning glory often, and the only thing I managed to utter about what a woman is was ‘I think I’m too priveleged to discuss this’ - not the best retort in the world Confused

averylongtimeago · 08/02/2018 15:54

Where has all this come from? And who is paying for it?

averylongtimeago · 08/02/2018 15:55

Sorry - derail!
The Spartacus threads on here were the first "peak" for me, but so many since.

Alwaysinmyheart · 08/02/2018 16:01

"pink sperm"??

C'mon, you MUST be making this up, it's too bloody ridiculous to be real!!!

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