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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Please do Scottish self-id consultation (even if not Scottish)

185 replies

okMaybeIAmATERF · 25/01/2018 12:49

Here's the URL: please do the consultation. (I think this has been posted before, but it bears repeating.)
consult.gov.scot/family-law/review-of-the-gender-recognition-act-2004/
To note:

  1. At the end, you will be asked whether you are resident in Scotland, the rest of the UK, or elsewhere - i.e. you don't have to be in Scotland, though obviously it's more important to be heard if you are.
  2. You will also be asked whether you want your response published with your name, without your name, or not at all - if that makes a difference to how you write your answers, it might be helpful to know this up front. Closes on March 1st, but don't wait till then!
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KissMaCis · 25/01/2018 13:03

Done and shared.

Patodp · 25/01/2018 13:10

Is there one of these for England?

MadCap · 25/01/2018 13:16

Done.

Mumsnut · 25/01/2018 13:17

"Should legal gender recognition stop being a ground of divorce or dissolution?"

Blimey. So the auld man could get himself declared a woman and I wouldn't be able to divorce him on those grounds?

okMaybeIAmATERF · 25/01/2018 13:20

That's right, @Mumsnut . Instead you'd have to wait one year, if he agreed, or two years, if he didn't.

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GuardianLions · 25/01/2018 13:20

Thanks for posting this again with this title - I did it a few weeks back after having overlooked the Scottish consultation thread thinking it didn't apply to me and then I read down and saw that I could participate - so hopefully, worded this way there'll be more takers!

SteelyPip · 25/01/2018 13:21

Done

AdultHumanFemale · 25/01/2018 14:10

I am staggered by the strangeness of this document. It shows such a clear bias and ignorance. The question about how to handle civil partnerships is weird; it sort of coyly explains that if one member of a same sex couple gets a GRC there will be 'a man and a woman in a civil partnership'. Eh?! To which I responded:
A Gender Recognition Certificate does not change someone's SEX, their actual BIOLOGY, so no, it would NOT be a man (xy chromosomes) and a woman (xx chromosomes) in a civil partnership, it would still be a SAME SEX couple, in which one partner IDENTIFIES as the opposite sex. So not actually changing anything biologically.
Or am l missing something? This should not need to be spelled out, unless they think it's already a done deal.

DodoPatrol · 25/01/2018 14:15

I see they require you to give an email address.
It says something, doesn't it, that doing that for a government organization feels risky.

okMaybeIAmATERF · 25/01/2018 14:29

The current situation is that the law does not make a clear distinction between sex and gender, so legally, a gender recognition certificate does change someone's sex. (There's a quotation in the consultation document that is a real classic of "thinking those terms are synonyms".)

I have come to, and expressed in the consultation, a position I wouldn't have believed a couple of years ago that I'd ever travel in the direction of, let along arrive at: I don't think anyone should be given a gender recognition certificate, under any circumstances. Instead, I think we should rigorously examine the cases where sex is held to be relevant and make sure it isn't allowed to be used except where it is relevant. (Which mostly means applying the current sex discrimination legislation better, but may require some further action, e.g., not allowing employers to have separate rules about dress and makeup for men and for women.)

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okMaybeIAmATERF · 25/01/2018 14:30

(I used an email address that gets to me, but which I have not given to anything but this consultation. So if it leaks, I'll know it.)

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SchrodingersFrilledLizard · 25/01/2018 14:37

Completed.

Maryz · 25/01/2018 14:56

I was having a look at that, and I just want to post "don't be ridiculous" in the comments for pretty much every question.

Which I don't suppose is very useful [sigh]

mineallmine · 25/01/2018 15:18

Done

MarSeeAh · 25/01/2018 15:19

I started to complete it last night, and am struggling for the same reasons as Maryz. The whole thing is a nonsense, and it's quite surreal having to respond to questions and propositions which make no sense whatsoever.

It's like being asked, "If grey sky be blue, should the trees have the potential of pink leaves?"

NKFell · 25/01/2018 15:37

I've done it but it is a complete load of shite!

It's like being asked, "If grey sky be blue, should the trees have the potential of pink leaves?" -

It really is MarSeeAh!

Maryz · 25/01/2018 15:39

I kept wanting to say "is that sex or gender you mean in that question?"

I couldn't get my answers in any way cohesive at all - yy to the pink leaves quote.

ArcheryAnnie · 25/01/2018 16:37

I see they require you to give an email address.
It says something, doesn't it, that doing that for a government organization feels risky.

This. I've filled it out without holding back. I've not yet found quite the courage to press "submit".

grasspigeons · 25/01/2018 17:23

I couldn't work out the non-binary section at all. What is did it mean - I think id given up by that point.

Yes it feels scary giving your email address to the government who are rubbish at controlling data and on a controversial issue.

k2p2k2tog · 25/01/2018 17:23

Done - I'm resident in Scotland.

grasspigeons · 25/01/2018 17:33

I identify as Scottish
I eat haggis and have a tartan blanket

DodoPatrol · 25/01/2018 17:50

Sent it now, under an old email address that I can check if I need to.

For the non-binary bit, I essentially just wrote 'Non-binary applies to anyone who isn't a walking stereotype, so no.'

I flatly refuse to believe that anyone sane is deeply distressed by not being allowed to change their name and pronouns daily like their contact lenses.

Bravenew · 25/01/2018 18:13

I just started filling this in and came to the same issue of writing a reason that wasn't "because your question is stupid".

I'll go back to it later.

I was getting a bit ragey just reading the first page of questions. :(

okMaybeIAmATERF · 25/01/2018 18:54

@ArcherieAnnie : it's easy to sign up for a new email address at gmail or somewhere else, and forward it to your real one but not otherwise connect it to your identity, if you want. Let me know if you need help. It's important that people not be put off filling this in.

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MarSeeAh · 25/01/2018 21:42

Phew! It's hard work. I'm getting increasingly sarky as I go on.

First line of my response to Q7 is "You are kidding, right?!"

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