I think it was this thread that I mentioned seeing a guest on JK talk of how her boyfriend was actually a woman, she only found out when the police notified her as her boyfriend had duped women before and there were several charges against him, the trans man was charged with sex by fraud ( or deception I can't remember), I'll have to find post to see what the sentence was, but I remember it shocked me, as from what I knew, trans people don't have to disclose their birth sex, and I've seen documentries where surgeons tell their patients to say they've been in an accident to explain why their neovagina is higher up etc.
Felt really bad for the woman speaking, she's been trolled online since and people say she prob doesn't know if her dc are a boy or a girl.
I also notice the difference in reporting and language between a sexual assault/rape of a woman by a man and the assault committed by a trans man, it's like the woman's story is totally accepted because the person committing the crime is viewed as female regardless of how she identifies, where as when it's a born male, holes are picked in her story, word alleged is bandied about, and the woman's personal life often mentioned.
TH didn't have her private life in papers, a woman would have had her sex work job splashed everywhere, if a woman head butted a man and knocked his teeth out, it would def be mentioned, and her list of crimes wouldn't be hushed up like TH.
It's just one double standard after another, and it seems to all boil down to, if your born male your self identity will be taken seriously, respected, and must be accommodated, but if your born female, your self identity means fuck all.