Just to add my 2 cents, its becoming too common for people (and in particular young teens) to do this, with no thought of the future.
I fell out with my brother when he was 17, I havent spoken to him since. He is now 21. One weekend when my parents were away, he filmed himself and his girlfriend, with her consent. Cue argument a few weeks later and the prick put it on facebook. It was shared, uploaded, sent to phones etc within hours. We only knew about it when her mother called to say she had been to the police.
I took him to the Police station because my poor parents couldnt face it. I got to hear such lovely things as "its her own fault" and "she asked for it". He genuinely, and I really mean it, it wasnt a act, he really genuinely thought that this was what constituted normal behaviour. He couldnt see what he had done for what it was, pure violation of this girl. This is why we dont speak. This is why he will never be a part of my sons life. Because he still cant see what he has done wrong.
I think if a look at the whole Tulisa thing without my cynical hat on, I think she reclaimed back a bit of power, but she shouldnt have ever been in this position in the first place. If I look at this without my cynical hat on, she doesnt need the publicity, NDUBZ have hard core fan bases, she is a judge on one of the top rated tv shows. So therefore she is also a victim of sexual violence.
If it is a marketing ploy, how terrible to be in a business where exploitation is the name of the game...I dont envy anyone that life.
Sorry for the ramble, no coherrent thought process on this one!