Hello….. can I just check please whether the regulars on this thread consider me eligible to join?
I’m a life-long binge eater and yo-yo dieter, 5’7” and at my heaviest 22 stone. That was a good few years ago….. but if I had lost 10 stone from there I would still have had a BMI of 26.
Between January 2024 and May 2025 I went from 18.10 to 13.3 with lifestyle change and a hell of a lot of emotional and mindset work. I felt I was finally going to crack it. Then I resumed bingeing again and within 3 months I was back to 14.5. Got a grip again, lost part of that regain, but from the start of this year had basically been bouncing around between 13.5 and 14stone, not getting anywhere.
I started Mounjaro 5 weeks ago at 13.10 and have just about snuck under 13 stone for the first time in over 30 years. Aiming for 11 stone.
So… do I qualify for this thread or not? 9 stone down, though not all in one go and most of it without meds. And another 2 to go.
I am particularly interested in the psychological adjustment we need to make when going from being always the largest person in the room to just… ordinary. The average BMI for women in the 56-65 age range is 28.8. I’m slightly below that now, and it blows my mind.
I am still wrestling with accepting that the body which emerges will not be perfect, on account of spare skin and wrinkles. Plus the fear of regain, of course. That, and not knowing what the right weight for me is. I’ve literally only once in my adult life had a healthy BMI, in my early 20’s, and for less than a year. I’ve been obese for about 45 years, and morbidly obese for the majority of that. How the hell am I supposed to know what the right size is for my body?
I suppose I like the idea of 11 st as my goal because it’s exactly half my maximum and would put me just within the healthy range.