Hi everyone
I haven't updated in a while. I am both happy and sad for you @TheSpoonyNavyReader - sad that you're marriage may be at an end and that's always a difficult transition, but happy that you've gained the confident and insight to see what is not working for you and the courage to try and change that, no matter what that outcome might be.
I have been maintaining for a while now, after a 4.5 stone loss (I'm 5'7"). I had titrated down from 11.5mg to 7.5mg and had maintained at that level since October. I had tried pushing out the doses to every ten days but I found my appetite increasing over Christmas and I put on a few pounds, so I went back to once a week and the few pounds came off.
I had planned for a long time to get a tummy tuck, mostly because I had severe diastasis recti from three pregnancies and really needed the muscles repaired. So I came off MJ for two weeks before my surgery on 5 February, and took my first dose back five days after the surgery. I took an initial dose of 5mg, as I was worried I would get a return of side effects if I took the full dose of 7.5mg. After four days of feeling fine, I took a top up of 2mg. I had planned to take 6mg as my next dose and then top up to 1/1.5mg a few days later again. Well I took the 6mg last Wednesday and I ended up having a few side effects on Friday evening/night. I also have quite a bit of appetite suppression, which I haven't had in a while. So no top up yesterday and I think I'll stick to 6mg on Wednesday.
Recovery has been tough but along the lines of what the surgeon told me to expect. I can't do any exercise until six weeks has passed, and even then it can only be light exercise. After 12 weeks I can go back to the gym. I expect I've lost a lot of the muscle I had tried to keep over my weight loss journey, and it's going to be a bit of an uphill journey to get it back. But overall I'm glad I got it done - I love how I look now (not constantly five months pregnant) and I'm willing to put in the work.