The biggest advice I can give is mindset. Weight is as much a mental battle as it is physical.
@Autumnflowers2 I hope you had a lovely time on holiday. Please be gentle on yourself. We have been overweight for a very long time and suddenly we can see the end that we are desperate to just get there. I get it. I'm 4 stone into my journey too with another 5 to go.
When I went on holiday in May. I gained 4lbs and within the first 2 days of being home, lost 2lbs. And it took 3 weeks to get my mind back out of holiday mode 🙄. I've lost a further 10kg since then which I wouldn't have done if I just gave up. So take your weight now with a pinch of salt.
@Onenotsosmallstep
As I said above, we have been overweight for so long that now we are suddenly impatient to lose it and the mind shakes when things don't go our way. I get it. It's taken me 15 years to be 9 stone overweight but now I'm pissed when I gain 1lb.
No one will lose this weight for ourselves but us. It's our job and our responsibility. We owe it to ourselves. It will take as long as it takes. Go back to your "why".
For me, I'm losing the weight for my kids, for myself, for my confidence, for my health, to not have weird looks, to not shop at plus size shops, to fit into seats, to live life like a normal human being!!!
Get back on the horse, give your head a wobble and carry on.
You have both got this and you're both doing an incredible job so far. And when we reach goal, my god how proud we will be!!!!!!! 🩷 🩷