Congrats @WitchDancer - onwards and upwards! May you be very happy in your new home.
I’ve been trying to find a moment to sit down and catch up. So pleased so many are now at target and those still losing, keep going, you’re doing so well.
In fact, we’ve all done so well. And what a great support group and bunch of friends we’ve made, albeit anonymous!
A year ago I was trying to find something to wear for my friends wedding and failing miserably. School friends and we don’t meet up very often. My pink trousers were skin tight on me and I could barely do them up. All the lovely dresses I ordered got sent back and I ended up in some trousers that did fit and a baggy shirt. I was the fat friend now. I hadn’t always been. I’d never been the skinniest, but I was definitely now that fat one!
14stone!
Late July, I clicked on the weight loss section on MN determined to start another diet. There was an injection section and I had no idea this was a thing. Had to be worth a try right?
I didn’t do a whole lot of research, I plunged right in and here I am! Pre-children and pre exdp, I was a steady 9 stone-ish. That was surely not possible, but I’d be happy at 10. Hell, I’d be happy at 12!
I say ex-do. He very much is, but we are still living together and co-parenting. It’s working ok. I have no interest in another bloke. And I don’t care what he does. He is welcome to leave anytime, but he won’t.
(one day he won’t have a choice, but for now he does his bit and it makes things easier).
We are going away tomorrow. Visiting family overseas, his and mine with our 3DC (who still haven’t packed!)
This morning I weighted 8st12. I am going to enjoy myself. If I put on half a stone, and I expect to, I’ll be where I thought I’d never be!
We are planning a water park and I have a swimsuit to wear! I’m very wrinkly, but am not going to let that put me off! I will try to get photos with my teens! However much they protest.
This past year, I’ve found myself again. Losing weight has given me the confidence I needed, and I’m no longer a fat menopausal hasbeen!
Lots has changed for me on a personal level, and I’ve reconnected with the past, something else that I thought would never happen.
You lot have played a big part in being my support system through this, I really don’t have anyone else, SO THANK YOU ALL.