@Bluenose1966 I hear so many people talking about vinted so I went on yesterday (forgot about it and haven’t been on in a while) and I was greeted by a nearly naked woman… I clicked on it and the description was ‘well worn… can be very worn… message me’
Anyway, I spent some time on there and my god you could spend hours of time and money! So many good bits on there.
@Mysticmaiden2024 7cm, amazing!
@TheChosenTwo Argh me too! My trousers are a bit iffy but the top situation is awful. I’m also still in a weird place mentally about how I look. Surely I’m still that 20st woman? I lost about 4st before MJ but I sometimes still think I’m 16/17/18/19/20st, know what I mean? I still think I need to wear ‘fat’ clothes. Tents and smocks. It’s going to take me a while to get out of that mindset.
Might go to M&S next week once I’ve been paid as they have changing rooms. For some reason Asda got rid of their changing rooms after Covid - WHY! Sometimes I am tempted to try on the clothes in the Asda loo and then return there and then but last time I went in the Asda loo I nearly vomited because it stank… of fish and poo. It was ghastly.
@EVK Lots of food (sorry) for thought there. It’s all a bit overwhelming isn’t it? I think we do have to give ourselves a bit of grace here.
Unfortunately, we are all probably a bit damaged from years of dieting and shame. Being balls deep in diet culture and expectations has probably left us all scarred for life. It’s everywhere we look and it’s very hard to get away from. Try not to get too in your head about it. This modern life is vastly different to times gone by. We’re all so busy working/looking after kids/parents/admin/car needs a MOT/fuck passport is going to expire that we’ve just got to try our best. I try not to get too in my head about what I should and shouldn’t be eating because then I get a bit all or nothing and then mess it up.
Lots of word salad there, sorry.
Wonderful that you got the honeymoon outfit out though!
@Bluenose1966 Totally agree. I’m not even thinking about coming off. It’s definitely a concern. With the blasted PCOS I’m looking at forever to be honest.
The problem with the attitude from some ignorant people is that once you’ve been overweight for a long time and have had to endure years of yoyo, everything is messed up. Eating less but more protein and moving more is just far too complex for those of us who have struggled. Obesity at the core is deep and tangled for a lot of us.
As the patents wear off and other WL treatments are introduced, I think it will be likely that most of us will be able to stay on some form of treatment forever. I did read somewhere (can’t back it up as I can’t remember) that if we can maintain for a year or so then it will become easier. For me I know that as soon as I stop it will all come back.
On a different note, the sun was out for about 15 minutes this morning. I had a cup of tea out there… spring is coming!