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Ham pr disasters 39! The Uganda divide…diplomatic necessity vs needless pandering.

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jeffgoldblum · 14/09/2026 18:34

Continuing the discussion, still interested, still not bored!

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jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 16:58

Thedom · 16/09/2026 16:24

Mike Tapp rightly getting called out on X now that it’s clear what is behind his motivation and his bias due to his friendship with Liam Maguire.

Oh brutal!! , but I can’t help but wonder why it falls to regular people from Reddit and x to investigate and reveal this information instead of actual journalists!

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VintageWithVerve · 16/09/2026 16:59

JSMill · 16/09/2026 15:28

I find that interesting as well because if the school are officially involved, what happens when it kicks off?! Actually I would imagine an alternative one gets set up pretty quickly by the parents so they can slag the school off!

There isn’t any kicking off. Not even when I’m asking for help with homework 🙈. It’s a nice group to be in. It’s there for practical reasons and people respect that.

If there is another group running alongside it then it would be an informal one and I’d not be any part of it out of choice. I think I’d know about it though as a good friend of mine is the class mum and it would have come up in conversation. She wouldn’t be a part of it either.

We also have very strict laws here about what can and can’t be said about people in real life or on social media, so for example any WhatsApp group discussing a teacher and attacking them professionally could very easily end up in the public prosecutors office and people being asked to explain what they said. Even a heated argument between parents in the group to the extent insults are flying, or for eg any kind of disagreement anywhere where tempers could be raised and someone is insulted can also end up in the public prosecutors.

In fact I may have once ended up there myself after telling a health care professional they were useless at their job. I was said to have insulted their professional integrity. It worked out ok for me but it doesn’t for everyone.

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:00

VintageWithVerve · 16/09/2026 16:35

I did wonder if there were groups not set up by the school and if so is that what Meghan was in?

Yes , it’s definitely odd ! , I don’t think we will find out , but if it’s the official school WhatsApp then it’s unlikely that they would leak 🤔
edit to add …I’m not convinced the mums would leak either, they would be used to “celebrity “ parents and surely they would be doxing their own phone numbers too?!

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VintageWithVerve · 16/09/2026 17:05

RemainInAbeyance · 16/09/2026 16:04

@IcedPurple I do get what you mean about the 'blinds' but at least it about H&M- this thread veers somewhat from them these days.

I think as they are always clearly labeled as gossip then they can have their place- I also find it interesting to know what others are saying

Since the thread opened up to so many new posters I’m finding we’ve sacrificed quality for quantity to quite an extent. I can’t believe some of the things I’m reading and the sources they’re coming from, it’s just absolute dross. Yes there were some daft ideas posted before but they were very much in the minority.

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:06

calfolly · 16/09/2026 16:41

Wait, what, Meghan knew Epstein's girlfriend? Have they been photographed together?

Yes .

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CoffeeCantata · 16/09/2026 17:07

ForAmberPoster · 16/09/2026 16:38

I’d not seen that until now - wow - pushy on a whole new level, so crass.

I wonder if the French use the acronym MEH for them.

It’s cringe on so many levels!

Firstly, they shouldn’t be at the door waiting
Then Charles goes over to warn them to stay put to allow the Q, him, W& C to enter the room to view the items on display
They ignore Charles, even though he puts out a hand to hold them back as well as speaking to them
They try to join in but are shepherded out by staff

Why in the name of God didn’t H just TELL her? And why did he disobey Charles’s instruction and follow her?

He is an idiot and this incident, to me , is the whole disaster of their time as royals in a nutshell: pushy M just will not be told, and H is too pathetic to put her right.

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:09

bluegreygreen · 16/09/2026 16:45

Yes, the absolute stupidity of suggesting that Meghan thought Andrew was the Queen's assistant/secretary when she met him, despite

1 having been friends with Eugenie for some time, and
2 Andrew being the most bombastic person - can you imagine him acting as if he was a servant in a room?

Particularly as this meeting was at his own house !! , odd that she knew Fergie….but thought Andrew was a servant! 🙄

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Starryfifty · 16/09/2026 17:09

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:09

Particularly as this meeting was at his own house !! , odd that she knew Fergie….but thought Andrew was a servant! 🙄

Meg knew exactly who AMW was

VintageWithVerve · 16/09/2026 17:10

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:00

Yes , it’s definitely odd ! , I don’t think we will find out , but if it’s the official school WhatsApp then it’s unlikely that they would leak 🤔
edit to add …I’m not convinced the mums would leak either, they would be used to “celebrity “ parents and surely they would be doxing their own phone numbers too?!

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It’s all bonkers. It is possible to be in a group and withhold your details and as someone said a few posts back - surely if you’re worried about security you know how to keep yourself secure even at the most basic level.

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:21

VintageWithVerve · 16/09/2026 17:05

Since the thread opened up to so many new posters I’m finding we’ve sacrificed quality for quantity to quite an extent. I can’t believe some of the things I’m reading and the sources they’re coming from, it’s just absolute dross. Yes there were some daft ideas posted before but they were very much in the minority.

I’m not entirely comfortable with this to be honest, the threads have not opened up , they have always been open, and the people discussing the blinds are not new posters, new posters are always welcome and obviously they may well not have followed the back story like older posters , so they are coming forth with what they have read …if you doubt the sources it’s better to explain why in a kind manner rather than assume any bad intent .

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IcedPurple · 16/09/2026 17:21

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:00

Yes , it’s definitely odd ! , I don’t think we will find out , but if it’s the official school WhatsApp then it’s unlikely that they would leak 🤔
edit to add …I’m not convinced the mums would leak either, they would be used to “celebrity “ parents and surely they would be doxing their own phone numbers too?!

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The thing is, it's only a screenshot. We don't see anyone's numbers. In order to see the number you'd have to find the contact and look for the number. I believe it's also possible to register without sharing your number. So there is no 'security threat' whatsoever.

I agree with you that I don't see anyone from the school sharing this. As I said above, how would it be worth it to them? I definitely think this came from Meghan's 'team'. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if the whole page and 'group' are fabricated. It would be very easy to do, even for her.

Lunde · 16/09/2026 17:22

calfolly · 16/09/2026 16:41

Wait, what, Meghan knew Epstein's girlfriend? Have they been photographed together?

There are other connections

Meghan is friends with the model Saffron Aldridge

Saffron Aldridge is a contact in the Jeffrey Epstein black book

When they lived in the UK previously Meghan attended several events with Saffron and her then husband ... the billionaire Ian Wace

Harry and Meghan are rumoured to be borrowing Ian Wace's stately home (Rowler Manor) on the Northamptonshire/Oxfordshire border.

Lots of strangely intersecting circles

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:23

IcedPurple · 16/09/2026 17:21

The thing is, it's only a screenshot. We don't see anyone's numbers. In order to see the number you'd have to find the contact and look for the number. I believe it's also possible to register without sharing your number. So there is no 'security threat' whatsoever.

I agree with you that I don't see anyone from the school sharing this. As I said above, how would it be worth it to them? I definitely think this came from Meghan's 'team'. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if the whole page and 'group' are fabricated. It would be very easy to do, even for her.

Indeed! A bit like the fabrication of messages in spare! , I don’t believe anything they say at this point!

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Usernameinabeyance · 16/09/2026 17:26

VintageWithVerve · 16/09/2026 17:05

Since the thread opened up to so many new posters I’m finding we’ve sacrificed quality for quantity to quite an extent. I can’t believe some of the things I’m reading and the sources they’re coming from, it’s just absolute dross. Yes there were some daft ideas posted before but they were very much in the minority.

I haven't even posted today 🙃

BasiliskStare · 16/09/2026 17:27

mummypigoink · 16/09/2026 16:52

Fair points from @BasiliskStare and @GroundCloves. Maybe that’s the way for them to get the security bill down. Hire a frazzled mum from the school run. Good at defensive driving and would take out anyone trying anything funny at the school with a well thrown lunch-box because they do not have time to be caught up in the aftermath of a nefarious plot. God knows I only wish I was as efficient now as I was back in the primary days. And woe betide anyone who got in my way.

That's made me laugh. I don't know the definition of a HNW parent , but I wasn't one by any definition. I could certainly be frazzled on occasion. & if a convoy blocked the very specific route round the car park laid down by the school , so that multiple cars could deliver two children, I might not have quite written a sternly worded to the Telegraph , but I might have mentioned it next time I was in the school office ( in office because owing to morning rush I had forgotten to take DS's model of a viking ship with him and so had to dash home and deliver it to the school over my lunch break) . @mummypigoink . I look back on those days and think however did I have the energy. I certainly wouldn't have had extra energy for dealing with other parents' hifalutin nonsense. 😊

heatdome · 16/09/2026 17:29

calfolly · 16/09/2026 16:41

Wait, what, Meghan knew Epstein's girlfriend? Have they been photographed together?

I thought they had but when I just Googled I discovered that that photo isn’t genuine. So I don’t know anymore. But Virginia Giuffre’s lawyer did at one point say MM might be requested to testify in her case.

heatdome · 16/09/2026 17:30

CluelessAmerican · 16/09/2026 16:47

The Cut interview refers to Archie being three so he would have been in preschool. Hmmm, interesting

Thanks for clarification. I’d forgotten it was pre-school not school.

PleasantGreenPorcupine · 16/09/2026 17:30

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:21

I’m not entirely comfortable with this to be honest, the threads have not opened up , they have always been open, and the people discussing the blinds are not new posters, new posters are always welcome and obviously they may well not have followed the back story like older posters , so they are coming forth with what they have read …if you doubt the sources it’s better to explain why in a kind manner rather than assume any bad intent .

Good points, there are more posters now, lots of people who lurked before, which is good. As long as guidelines aren't broken it's surely all fine.

Lunde · 16/09/2026 17:33

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:23

Indeed! A bit like the fabrication of messages in spare! , I don’t believe anything they say at this point!

Yes - it's all smoke, mirrors and playing the victim

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:36

PleasantGreenPorcupine · 16/09/2026 17:30

Good points, there are more posters now, lots of people who lurked before, which is good. As long as guidelines aren't broken it's surely all fine.

Indeed! I would also like to mention that many posters name change, unless they say they are new it’s impossible to know if they are or not!

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PleasantGreenPorcupine · 16/09/2026 17:36

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:36

Indeed! I would also like to mention that many posters name change, unless they say they are new it’s impossible to know if they are or not!

Absolutely!

PrivateCitizenTooDimforDiplomacy · 16/09/2026 17:41

mummypigoink · 16/09/2026 13:27

Sorry to go backwards, but all this talk of security problems with the convoy takes me back a link posted very very early on in these threads, where a former police officer talked about the specialist driver training he undertook and why HaM would want to keep it. He made a thing of how close they all had to drive to each other, in rush hour traffic and not get separated (albeit with outriders).

The notion that professional security are having their convoy disrupted by yummy mummies on the school run makes me alternatively laugh and shudder at why you’d hire such incompetent security professionals. Driver training is by no means something that only the police can do, and the difficulties in maintaining a convoy without outriders during rush hour would be obvious from google maps!

Don't underestimate a yummy mummy intent on getting her little darling to school on time. Plus H&M aren't the only people driving huge SUVs able to muscle in at roundabouts and junctions.

And whilst I don't underestimate a well trained driver, I think it's rather dangerous to be in a convoy trying to keep together at school rush hour in a congested area like Oxford. Lots of cyclists weaving in and out, people stepping out at zebra crossings etc, traffic calming and even with a 20mph speed limit, speeding up to get across a traffic light when the car in front has gone is not always a good idea. I think for the safety of everyone travelling to school or work in that part of Oxford the absence of a convoy driven by a paranoid Prince and beefy security blokes is a blessing.

littlecoffeemug · 16/09/2026 17:43

GroundCloves · 16/09/2026 15:53

I think you underestimate the driving skills and ruthlessness of yummy mummies on the school run!

My DCs were lucky if I slowed down enough to allow them to safely commando roll out of the back of the car as I hurtled past the school gates.

jeffgoldblum · 16/09/2026 17:48

PrivateCitizenTooDimforDiplomacy · 16/09/2026 17:41

Don't underestimate a yummy mummy intent on getting her little darling to school on time. Plus H&M aren't the only people driving huge SUVs able to muscle in at roundabouts and junctions.

And whilst I don't underestimate a well trained driver, I think it's rather dangerous to be in a convoy trying to keep together at school rush hour in a congested area like Oxford. Lots of cyclists weaving in and out, people stepping out at zebra crossings etc, traffic calming and even with a 20mph speed limit, speeding up to get across a traffic light when the car in front has gone is not always a good idea. I think for the safety of everyone travelling to school or work in that part of Oxford the absence of a convoy driven by a paranoid Prince and beefy security blokes is a blessing.

The school run is legendary in its craziness!! Years before I even had children, I had heard about it!! …….it was worse than I expected…..like a war zone, where apparently normal people lose all knowledge of how to drive and decency are completely blind to the safety of any other child but their own ….frankly I was shocked and traumatised by it.
as someone who lived near and worked in Oxford years ago it’s fairly obvious that it’s not somewhere where driving is advisable unless you live in the surrounding countryside.

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Starryfifty · 16/09/2026 17:53

Did a parent really leak Meg's details? Or is this another HAM move ??

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