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PR disasters thread 28

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BigWillyLittleTodger · 13/08/2026 13:06

Are the bets on or off for an invite to Balmoral?
Will Meghan bake a humble pie for Catherine?
Let’s discuss……!

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JSMill · 14/08/2026 19:44

BigWillyLittleTodger · 14/08/2026 19:37

Yes it was all very odd, she even went to an engagement with HMTQ less than a month after she married Harry, it was almost a year after Catherine married William that she had a solo engagement with The Queen, and wasn’t Meghan the first ever fiancé to be invited to Christmas at Sandringham iirc? The Palace did seem to fall over themselves to give her special unprecedented treatment.

Writing that post, I forgot M is mixed race. Perhaps BP were very worried about not looking like M was being fully embraced as a member of the family.

DancingFerret · 14/08/2026 19:56

JSMill · 14/08/2026 19:23

People say HMQ had her number from early on. If that’s true, why was she given such important roles and duties early on? I don’t recall K and W doing foreign royal tours within the first year of marriage. H described it as a success in his book but the photos of her fleeing that market because it was unsafe looked terrible. HMQ and the MIGS should have taken it slowly.

I believe the Queen and her advisers were acutely aware of public opinion (bearing in mind the majority of the public were at that time firmly pro-Markle) and also determined to not to give Markle herself any cause to publicly play victim. Appeasement was the name of the game back then; not so much now.

The senior royals were all too aware their new family member was unstable and difficult. I'm surprised they didn't have the bomb squad on speed dial.

NewAchievement · 14/08/2026 20:01

She went on around 26 public engagements before the wedding and only 26 days after her wedding, went on her first solo engagement with the Queen!!!

When she looks back at her first Royal engagement in Nottingham and the 1,000s waiting adoringly for her, she must kick herself what she’s lost!

Also my personal opinion why the palace arranged all these visits - What Meghan wants. Meghan gets.

jeffgoldblum · 14/08/2026 20:07

AutumnCrowsMusings · 14/08/2026 19:39

Well Jeff, if I have to be ruled over 'happy and glorious' by someone, I'd rather it wasn't by a couple of tatty deluded cokeheads.

I agree completely! , I may not be fully republican or fully royalist but if either of those attention seeking, embarrassing, uncouth individuals were even a snifter close to the throne I would be chaining myself to the palace and calling for the end immediately!

Mylovelygreendress · 14/08/2026 20:13

BigWillyLittleTodger · 14/08/2026 19:37

Yes it was all very odd, she even went to an engagement with HMTQ less than a month after she married Harry, it was almost a year after Catherine married William that she had a solo engagement with The Queen, and wasn’t Meghan the first ever fiancé to be invited to Christmas at Sandringham iirc? The Palace did seem to fall over themselves to give her special unprecedented treatment.

I think they were worried they would be accused of racism if they didn’t go over the top welcoming her .

Rhaidimiddim · 14/08/2026 20:13

BigWillyLittleTodger · 14/08/2026 19:37

Yes it was all very odd, she even went to an engagement with HMTQ less than a month after she married Harry, it was almost a year after Catherine married William that she had a solo engagement with The Queen, and wasn’t Meghan the first ever fiancé to be invited to Christmas at Sandringham iirc? The Palace did seem to fall over themselves to give her special unprecedented treatment.

A naive my-fair-lady attemp to polish the turd?

Or a find-out-what-we've-got - is this a turd we can polish - exercise?

Or a recognition that H was out mentally already and MM was a golddigger who always planned on hauling her prince back to Cali to merch, so let's give them something to do (to bore them to bits) until they finally fuck off, so we can't be accused of not trying.

Or all three.

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Noodledog · 14/08/2026 20:15

NewAchievement · 14/08/2026 20:01

She went on around 26 public engagements before the wedding and only 26 days after her wedding, went on her first solo engagement with the Queen!!!

When she looks back at her first Royal engagement in Nottingham and the 1,000s waiting adoringly for her, she must kick herself what she’s lost!

Also my personal opinion why the palace arranged all these visits - What Meghan wants. Meghan gets.

I don't think she ever cared about plaudits from us British plebs though. She wanted plaudits from Hollywood a listers and billionaires. British plebs were just her route to gaining worthwhile attention.

JoanChitty · 14/08/2026 20:27

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 14/08/2026 18:28

Who else had her number from the get-go?

I didn't take to her at all, but it was the dog's-breakfast-look at the engagement announcement - coat like a dressing gown, massive ill-fitting shoes, messy hair and weird arched back posing - that got my Spidey-senses really going. Then the twenty billion pound (or whatever it was) engagement photo shoot dress. I thought, 'The Queen won't like that!' Then it was downhill all the way, really.

I did upbraid myself for my unpleasant and judgemental nature, but after a bit I thought it was more her than me, really.

Yep completely agree. It was the dirty shoes for me and the way she was so gushing in the engagement interview. At first I put it down to her being an American but something didn’t feel right to me
I don’t think anyone could support someone who was a proven liar and bully and who made the Queen’s last years miserable especially all the blatant lies in the OW interview. I think the Queen’s death and the outpouring of sorrow and admiration for her service showed OW she had backed the wrong horse. Hence her scrambling to cover her arse.
I think people are starting to see what the BRF have had to put up with and the respect for Catherine and William has increased.
The Harkles are all fur coat and no knickers. They may shine initially but achieve nothing of substance.

thenightsky · 14/08/2026 20:32

When she looks back at her first Royal engagement in Nottingham and the 1,000s waiting adoringly for her, she must kick herself what she’s lost!

I don't think she does. She actively wanted the crowds to shun her so she could scream racist at us, the UK public later. Adoring public would ruin that plan.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 14/08/2026 20:52

My latest thought is this.
No way will the King, and William, allow them back
They can’t. They simply can’t risk it. Imagine - they come back, HIHO, nice pad here paid for by the King or ensconced in Windsor, all of the ‘prime’ engagements, wheel out the HAMlets at Easter & Christmas then……HAM decide they don’t like it. They don’t like being told what to do. They can’t cope with William barely acknowledging them and their kids. Meghan feels suicidal
They decide to go back full time to montecito. And they write ANOTHER book, give many many more interviews
They reveal what Catherine’s health issues are. They share the contents of the Late Queens will, and have many many pictures and videos taken inside Windsor, Balmoral and Sandringham

I can only hope you're right about the RF not risking a return, @DaisyDooley, but definitely agree about what the consequences would likely be
To me it was obvious almost from the start that Meghan had no intention of staying here, that Harry was an opportunity and that she deliberately created a narrative to deliver what she wanted, and risking a rerun would be madness

I also agree that they'd have been slammed if they hadn't gone the extra mile for her, but had to smile at the idea it was to prevent her acting the victim ... as if anyone could have stopped her (and she can't act that convincingly either) Hmm

JSMill · 14/08/2026 20:59

@JoanChittyomg the dirty shoes! The biggest day of her life so far and she doesn’t fork out for a new pair of shoes. I wonder if she couldn’t afford to get a new pair.

JoanChitty · 14/08/2026 21:17

@JSMill I believe they were the ones she had ‘lifted’ from a previous photoshoot!

Dontevenlookatme · 14/08/2026 22:11

DancingFerret · 14/08/2026 18:20

Reading these threads has had me thinking back to the days when Markle first hove into view. It was obvious to me (I know, but honestly it was obvious) she was a complete fraud - and not a very nice one at that.

So many people were gushing about Harry's new "girl" - and anyone who voiced concern was immediately accused of the R word, especially by the "girl" herself who traded heavily on her biracial heritage, despite describing herself as Caucasian on her CV.

Who else had her number from the get-go?

I did, @DancingFerret. The engagement interview told me who she was and I was right. Everything we’ve learned about her since that day has only confirmed my thinking. I found her simpering and false in that interview. It was blindingly obvious to me that she was playing a part.

Dontevenlookatme · 14/08/2026 22:16

Lifestooshort71 · 14/08/2026 18:26

The engagement interview waved huge red flags for me - the audacity of her, taking control of the conversation, all the simpering and flirting. I'm a bit ancient and just thought....well, you're a right little madam aren't you?

I hadn’t read your post @Lifestooshort71, when I added my thoughts, uncanny we were on exactly the same page!

SqueakyDinosaur · 14/08/2026 22:18

I just remember her claiming she knew nothing about Harry and the only thing she asked their mutual friend was "Is he kind?" I think I dislocated my brain eyerolling at that.

My2cents1975 · 14/08/2026 22:19

From my American perspective, I am astonished that anyone thought a Socal raised Toronto based actress would be anything other than a disaster. To be honest, in the USA, 49 other states think California is the land of weird lunatics! Anyone with that dreadful vapid Socal upspeak accent receives eyerolls instantly as you know the conversation will be a woo-woo word salad fest.

I had low expectations and then that dreadful engagement photoshoot with the ludicrously overpriced dress that was see-through on top. Given that other brides in H's generation had engagement dresses under a thousand pounds, that would have given a normal woman a range to work with, but not M! For me, it was clear evidence that M would not toe the line, but I never thought HaM would quit in a huff or do tell-alls. HaM wildly exceeded my low expectations in finding new subterranean levels!

A comedy of errors indeed.

SqueakyDinosaur · 14/08/2026 22:26

C's engagement dress cost £385. OK expensive by normal person standards, but pretty modest by RF standards. And a formal photoshoot, not the gloopy filmstar version.

Butteredtoast55 · 14/08/2026 22:50

@SqueakyDinosaur I loved the W&C Mario Testino engagement photo where they are hugging each other. It's so natural (wish I had the brains to know how to post it on here!)

bluegreygreen · 14/08/2026 22:58

Butteredtoast55 · 14/08/2026 22:50

@SqueakyDinosaur I loved the W&C Mario Testino engagement photo where they are hugging each other. It's so natural (wish I had the brains to know how to post it on here!)

This one?

PR disasters thread 28
AutumnCrowsMusings · 14/08/2026 23:04

Is this the mucky shoes episode? One looks hungover and the other one looks like they’re still vibing.

prince harry GIF by euronews
AutumnCrowsMusings · 14/08/2026 23:05

There’s a lot of these GIFs.

Royal Family GIF by euronews
StartupRepair · 14/08/2026 23:09

I had doubts from the pre-engagement Wild About Harry interview. The engagement fakeness and simpering sealed those doubts. My cousin the next day said 'Here's trouble'. How right she was.

Gotback · 14/08/2026 23:09

From the get go? Yes. From her brother's letter actually. Even if it was nonsense from him, how did the sort of people who write such public nonsense about their sister get within the RF's orbit? And I knew it wasn't nonsense anyway, the words he used were so specific, "jaded & cynical" iirc. I just thought oh she's not a head girl type, she's not going fit in. Then I saw the engagement interview. I remember saying "she's out for herself, she'll go on talk shows & write books." I didn't realise how talentless & empty she was though and it's a good job she is really, with a bit more intelligence & patience she could have got away with a lot more.

Noodledog · 14/08/2026 23:17

SqueakyDinosaur · 14/08/2026 22:18

I just remember her claiming she knew nothing about Harry and the only thing she asked their mutual friend was "Is he kind?" I think I dislocated my brain eyerolling at that.

Anyone taking anything she came out with seriously after that point needs their brain examined IMO.

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