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The royal family

Mercy for Meghan & Harry

215 replies

ThunderThighs123 · 09/08/2026 10:48

The outpouring of criticism about them both has been enthralling & entertaining, but I really think it's time to just leave them alone. Let them get on with their lives and sink into relative obscurity, like Edward and Wallis Simpson. What do you think?

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Viviennemary · 09/08/2026 13:19

When they sink into obscurity and stop drawing attention to themselves then that will be the time to stop reporting on them. But as they are still on their 'we want privacy' world tour then that isn't going to happen.

TheHatTrick · 09/08/2026 13:22

CurlewKate · 09/08/2026 13:18

Whatever else, H&M will never be let off the hook by the British press. The third estate has a VERY long memory and never forgive. Even if they try to live a quiet life the Mail will find things to tell us about them. And will manipulate us into engaging.

Interested to hear your take on the revelations by Charlotte Griffiths. Harry and Meghan leaked the location of the “peace talks” then complained about the leak.

jeffgoldblum · 09/08/2026 13:31

TheHatTrick · 09/08/2026 13:22

Interested to hear your take on the revelations by Charlotte Griffiths. Harry and Meghan leaked the location of the “peace talks” then complained about the leak.

Edited

Worse! , they implied that the leak had come from the palace!

MarthaLovesLaughing · 09/08/2026 13:34

Happyjoe · 09/08/2026 11:29

Do you have proof of any of that?

I didn't realise this thread involved PROVING things 🤣

FrippEnos · 09/08/2026 13:51

MarthaLovesLaughing · 09/08/2026 13:34

I didn't realise this thread involved PROVING things 🤣

It would be somewhat ironic given the subject matter.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 09/08/2026 14:26

SleepingStandingUp · 09/08/2026 12:18

being a bit less rich than your rich relatives does not begin to explain the things he's been accused of

and whilst he may not have had a bottomless money fund, it seems highly unlikely the queen left him skint 🙄

I don't imagine you are wrong but a good portion of that is going to have to go toward paying the Daily Mail legal fees now. And I'm sure I read that he offered to pay Baroness Lawrence's fees too. Obviously not a promise he ever expected to have to make good on, so convinced was he that they'd win. Oops!

quaintireneofrye · 09/08/2026 14:38

CurlewKate · 09/08/2026 13:18

Whatever else, H&M will never be let off the hook by the British press. The third estate has a VERY long memory and never forgive. Even if they try to live a quiet life the Mail will find things to tell us about them. And will manipulate us into engaging.

There isn't a British press really because they all have different editorials and agendas. I think tabloids like the DM love them because of the clickbait. In a way I think it's good to have a press which questions royals and others with a lot of wealth and power. They're too used to expecting deference and that includes H&M.

quaintireneofrye · 09/08/2026 14:40

Snorlaxo · 09/08/2026 12:49

You’ve totally contradicted your initial post by replying with comments about the duo.

If everyone who really believed that enough had been said stopped posting then there would be less said about them.

I’m replying to this as this board comes up on Active. Reversing that would also help towards less comments.

The comments won’t stop until the duo stop living a public life. And that includes the Insta account which now regularly features the children which is very hypocritical and unfair on them. They are the easiest way to attract attention and make money but shouldn’t be used that way imo.

Yes, you're right about using the children, fair point.

CurlewKate · 09/08/2026 14:40

I know nothing about it. I was just pointing out that the Press will never forgive Harry for taking them to court.

quaintireneofrye · 09/08/2026 14:44

CurlewKate · 09/08/2026 14:40

I know nothing about it. I was just pointing out that the Press will never forgive Harry for taking them to court.

I was pointing out that there's no such thing as "the press" because all the news outlets are different.

Itsbeenalongtimeincoming · 09/08/2026 14:50

milkhater · 09/08/2026 12:27

Why consume it though? I’m not particularly interested in them so don’t watch them, follow them or read about them. I find the people who watch them just to moan about them so odd.

Agreed and I don’t either but you can’t escape it if they are on the news, or when you out on Netflix and their programmes come up etc.

TheHatTrick · 09/08/2026 15:01

CurlewKate · 09/08/2026 14:40

I know nothing about it. I was just pointing out that the Press will never forgive Harry for taking them to court.

The article CG wrote afterward is worth reading if you want to have an informed opinion about Harry’s relationship with the press and particularly the Daily Mail and Caroline Griffiths. It humanised the people
whose reputation he intended to tarnish and makes a liar of him.

He was in active contact with the DM as recently as summer 2025 and feeding them stories.

He also lied about his past relationship with CG. It would be hard to forgive him but I don’t think she harbors ill will.

ginasevern · 09/08/2026 15:10

ThunderThighs123 · 09/08/2026 11:10

Care to elaborate??
I've always seen myself as anti-royal, but I've slowly begun to appreciate the existence of the royals, especially during these politically volatile times. It's like King Charles' recent American speech, which gave us the long view, rising above short-termism and political in-fighting.

I'm not a royalist, so there's that for starters (don't ask for a list of reasons, you'll be here all day). As far as Kate and William are concerned, I find them spectacularly uninspiring and bland especially given their relative youth. I'm far from alone in that assertion.

adragoncalledaudrey · 09/08/2026 16:32

I do think they could lead a quiet life. It would be quite the chatfest media-wise for a while if they chose that but it would eventually die down.

I think if they remained quietly doing stuff behind the scenes, the daft stories would stop. Like ‘She wore Di’s earrings’ and other nonsense.

I don’t think that will be the case though.

I truly don’t think they want that.

Paddingtonsmarmaladesandwich2 · 09/08/2026 16:40

GoodkneeBadKnee · 09/08/2026 11:07

Ooh, what part of their lives have they "announced" recently then?

Trying to hint to the general public they were at Althorp

at the same time as demanding police protection as they felt in danger

Victorius19 · 09/08/2026 16:45

They could lead a quiet life and raise their family in relative obscurity. They choose not to. Meghan needs attention like the rest of us need oxygen, and Harry wants to be worshipped because he's Harry. They will still be playing the victims and grabbing at straws forever more.

TheHatTrick · 09/08/2026 17:10

Happyjoe · 09/08/2026 11:29

I have always thought it's so strange for people to give two hoots about the royal family.
I also think that the 'pile on' will never stop because of Harry bravely taking on the press. The negative stories from the Mail etc won't stop, ever.

Not sure if you saw my post above regarding Charlotte Griffiths’ article about her past friendship with Harry and his very recently leaking info to the press while disingenuously blaming BP for doing so.

It shouldn’t have shocked me but it did and I feel quite sorry for her and her colleagues after reading it. His accusations are a farce.

Here’s a link. I can’t archive it now but maybe someone else will.

www.dailymail.com/news/article-15941757/charlotte-griffiths-prince-harry.html

Bluebellsintheforest33 · 09/08/2026 17:11

They're public figures. I mean, they could have completely become private citizens after leaving the monarchy and embraced a quiet life. But they didnt. They want to be celebrities, they want to be rich, they want to be famous. As such public figures, they will undoubtedly be open to scrutiny.

If it's all too much, they could quit celebrity life and get normal jobs. Tbh they probably wouldn't need to get normal jobs, they have so much money they could buy a little house in the middle of nowhere and live off their savings.

But they don't. They actively choose not to. So I don't feel any sympathy for them one bit.

KittyTinker · 09/08/2026 17:17

TheHatTrick · 09/08/2026 15:01

The article CG wrote afterward is worth reading if you want to have an informed opinion about Harry’s relationship with the press and particularly the Daily Mail and Caroline Griffiths. It humanised the people
whose reputation he intended to tarnish and makes a liar of him.

He was in active contact with the DM as recently as summer 2025 and feeding them stories.

He also lied about his past relationship with CG. It would be hard to forgive him but I don’t think she harbors ill will.

The incident with the white pill is in my opinion very troubling I think minimising the seriousness of this is dangerous. Perhaps the reconciliation with his family is not just about money and royal adjacency. After all it took decades for the extent of Andrew’s behaviour to be revealed and I’m sure we still don’t know the full extent of his dealings while representing the country as trade envoy.

DirtyGertiefromno30 · 09/08/2026 17:25

Not on anyone's Nelly after the way they have treated the RF and accused the UK citizens of being Racist .

Benjithedog · 09/08/2026 17:27

ThunderThighs123 · 09/08/2026 10:48

The outpouring of criticism about them both has been enthralling & entertaining, but I really think it's time to just leave them alone. Let them get on with their lives and sink into relative obscurity, like Edward and Wallis Simpson. What do you think?

Maybe they need to stop courting press and public attention then as it’s seems they are getting ever desperate.

CurlewKate · 09/08/2026 17:28

quaintireneofrye · 09/08/2026 14:38

There isn't a British press really because they all have different editorials and agendas. I think tabloids like the DM love them because of the clickbait. In a way I think it's good to have a press which questions royals and others with a lot of wealth and power. They're too used to expecting deference and that includes H&M.

Absolutely. Papers that question deference and challenge the RF is highly desirable. Questioning and challenging ALL of them!

Benjithedog · 09/08/2026 17:31

Happyjoe · 09/08/2026 11:29

Do you have proof of any of that?

Where do you start? The book, the reality show, the numerous interviews ……..

Benjithedog · 09/08/2026 17:32

TillieAndPosey · 09/08/2026 11:43

I love the gossip but cannot understand the hatred. But, recently social media and discussion forums just seem full of haters, trolls and bots, generally, anyway.

I think Harry looks terribly unhappy in recent photos. I think H&M’s image is undergoing a planned and deliberate rehabilitation at the moment. I think working up to some kind of professional relationship with the RF and acceptance in the UK. Not necessarily HIHO but something similar. It will succeed, as it did with Camilla.

It’s very sad, H was always so popular, the UK was happy for him and M but they blew it. I think H regrets it and misses his brother and SIL and their children.

I can’t see William agreeing to that. It will be him
in charge and not Charles.

MyThreeWords · 09/08/2026 17:36

"Mercy for Meghan and Harry"??? Don't you think that this soap opera garbage is exactly what they are suffering from? Whatever stance you take in the completely weird world of 'royal family chat' you are consuming them -- bread and circuses, with their lives as the bread and the popcorn.

If everyone simply ignored them they might be able to scrabble towards some basic grip on normality.