Oh fhs! In truth, none of us know for sure what either of them are like!
All the snippets of interviews we see are pre-planned and curated and all of the articles, podcasts, and articles are largely supposition!
If Harry had been born before William, then William may have turned out to be the one who was causing issues. The phenomenon of the rebel second son is well known. It’s far easier to tow the line and have a strong purpose when you are inheriting the title and have inherited all of the money and the majority of the power.
I’m sorry but I just can’t go along with this simplistic narrative of Catherine and William> perfect in every way, and Harry and Meghan> dire in every way, Most reasonable people know that real life isn’t like that! And yet so many people on here seem willing to swallow whatever story is presented to them in the Daily Mail that day!