@Maireas
Well if Charles does choose to forgive them and opts to carry on as normal/positively welcome them?
He is a better person than me.
Over the years, me and the siblings have had our wobbles. We would, however, don a pair of stripey tights, rock a pair of Ruby slippers and stand about waiting for a house to fall from the sky before we allowed anyone outwith family to do a scobie.
Any insults/accusations or whatever would not be contrived pish but would be something truthful and harsh enough to get giddy ower. And you sort it before it festers into an ugly throbbing boil.
I’m from an area where folk may well find out your business but the stuff that really matters is not hung out on the line for all and sundry to dissect.
I’d maybe meet him in Wetherspoons but he’d not be welcome again in the only private sanctuary you get away from prying eyes/opinions etc etc. Who knows if photos of ‘private areas’ would again find their way into an arty black and white photo.
I’d no more return to how it was in the halcyon days than I would order a lettuce leaf for my last meal on this earth.