It will indeed be interesting to see if the couple can pull any success from all the chaos they have caused.
It is all such a bloody mess eh @rosyglowcondition ?
I do think they made the best decision - for them - to leave but I don’t think they envisaged how things would turn out.
It could have been so different. I don’t know what possessed them to concentrate on the negatives instead of embracing the positives. It was a definite crossroads and they chose the wrong way.
They may well feel disenchanted and bitter about how events transpired even though it may have felt totally valid to them.
But it might now be time to let it go and prove everyone wrong by knuckling down and doing what will ultimately make them happy. And that will take so much more hard graft now. They not only have to work to achieve the dream but also now they have to turn opinions.
A colleague was always saying how much they hated their job, gave up trying, bitched about this and that (a lot) because they felt they deserved better.
The dream job came up and they had a foot in the door and transferable skills.
And all that folk remembered was the bitching, complaining and the lack of effort. And guess what?
If ever folk want an example of snatching defeat from the jaws of victory…
I will say it until I’m blue in the face. Happy people don’t seek to make others miserable. Happy people spread joy wherever they go.
What a waste of a wonderful opportunity.