Well, I know this goes against the grain on here a bit, but I like Thomas M, and Samantha could b worse. I think Megan's biggest mistake was treating her family like dirt when she decided to marry a prince. Would have been better to treat them with respect rather than side line them. Of course they feel hurt and they want revenge.
I'm a little indifferent to MM but I can't stand lying and narcissism, both of which she and Harry appear to hold as core values. If Samantha's case shines further light on lies, I'm all for it.
Best way to get through this world with your dignity and respect in tact - don't lie, be kind, don't diss your family in public. It's that simple. Both MM and Samantha would be wise to heed this advice. However, Sam has less to lose and already feels out of her depth, side lined and unliked by many. She and Thomas also don't have advisors or access to the kind of help that might have helped her keep quiet. MM has all the help she could ver wish for (despite alleging otherwise), so she'd be wise to take it.
I kind of think the royal family who have years of practice at this kind of thing, have very sensible advice - never complain, never explain. There's a reason they hold this and despite Harry's rebellion, he'd have been better off sticking with this advice from his elders. He also would have been wise to have advised his wife of this mantra and avoided Oprah etc...
MM and H will.leqrn eventually .... or they'll just keep doing what they r doing and going from bad to worse. It's up to them!