To be fair, there’s a big difference between starting a thread just to berate the McCanns for neglecting their children, which I agree is just pointless and unkind, and responding to posts where we might disagree, or query what someone means, or feel an important point is being minimised.
So far on this thread, there have been a few posters who seem to minimise or normalise what the McCanns did (‘everyone did it back then’ ‘it was no different to the babysitting system at the resort’ etc) I completely disagree that it was very normal in 2007 to leave toddlers unattended while going out. And obviously leaving the children and popping back every half hour or so was totally different to leaving them in the evening nursery provision.
There have also been several comments about the twin siblings being ‘fine’ - someone actually said something along the lines of them having grown up to be better than the adult offspring of most MN posters or words to that effect! 🤨 Again, I disagree that someone who knows they were left unattended at age 2, whose older sister has gone missing, and who has grown up in a household where the grief goes on and there are no conclusive answers can be ‘fine.’ Hopefully there will have been specialist support to enable them to come to terms with it but I think it’s minimising the experience to just say they’re fine.
This is a public forum for discussion. When someone starts a thread, people will inevitably comment. If someone comments with something you disagree with, responding with a personal attack and saying they’re just being nasty doesn’t mean a jot. Disagree with a reasonable opinion or facts. If you can.