I thought it was so odd that they hadn't been to her Dad's before they had the interview, it seemed an extraordinary faux pas. He was just expected to pitch up at this massive event without any kind of preparation or been given the chance to develop a relationship with Harry.
Yes! This really bothered me. As did Doria been literally flown in last minute. I thought it incredibly rude of H. I think I also blame the wider RF for allowing that one, it reeked of snobbishness. We're so superior, we can't deign to meet our prospective inlaws, they're commoners after all. Just wrong. Mind you I don't know how it was in respects of the middletons?
It made me wonder just how deferential M was being to please H or fit into the establishment, that she didn't seem to press for greater equality in terms of how her parents were treated.