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Is this dress too short for 39!?

336 replies

Pooshweens · 27/11/2019 14:32

I got this dress from whistles which I love until DH said it was a touch too short. I'm 39 years old and don't want to look mutton!

What do you think?

Is this dress too short for 39!?
Is this dress too short for 39!?
OP posts:
LauraBradshaw · 27/11/2019 17:50

As long as you don't go commando you will be fine

Kaisawheel · 27/11/2019 17:51

It looks absolutely fantastic on you OP, wear it with confidence!

MissConductUS · 27/11/2019 17:51

You look great in that dress. You have lovely hair too.

Mummyshark2018 · 27/11/2019 17:56

Looks lovely!

Catsandchardonnay · 27/11/2019 17:57

Aaaaarrgghh I hate threads like this. What fucking decade are we in? Why shouldn’t women wear what they want regardless of age. I’m 53 and wear arse-skimming dresses. They distract attention from my wrinkled wizened old face. Like I care. I give zero fucks about what anyone thinks. As do most mon. Wake up women!!! Why does anyone care about this shit?

OP is your DH controlling in other ways too?

ThirstyGhost · 27/11/2019 17:57

You honestly look lovely IMO. Tell your DH he is showing HIS age, as notions about skirt (and also hair) lengths and age are: a) outdated now and b) were always utter bullshit designed to create insecurities in the first place.

ThirstyGhost · 27/11/2019 17:58

@Catsandchardonnay

... or what SHE said. lol. I love you.

Catsandchardonnay · 27/11/2019 17:58

*mon not men. God I’m so angry I can’t type.

Catsandchardonnay · 27/11/2019 17:58

Aarrgghh I mean men not mon!!!!

confusedmaybe · 27/11/2019 18:01

You look great,

confusedmaybe · 27/11/2019 18:02

And I have friends in their 50s that wear short skirts and look fab

Honeysucklerose1 · 27/11/2019 18:03

Not too short at all, wear it with pride. You look great. Wink

theEnglishInPatient · 27/11/2019 18:04

I give zero fucks about what anyone thinks.

good for you, but most women do care.

You just have to see the endless threads, forums, groups asking others their opinion on x y z piece of clothing.

Catsandchardonnay · 27/11/2019 18:08

@theEnglishInPatient I know, and I find it very sad. I dress for me not anyone else, if anyone doesn’t like it they have poor taste imo! It’s so sad that in this day and age that women are still so worried about stuff like this. Men aren’t. And this too old thing is just a construct designed to keep women in their place and feel bad about ageing. What happened to feminism eh?

Mlou32 · 27/11/2019 18:09

Absolutely not, you're only 39, still young! It's lovely.

Catsandchardonnay · 27/11/2019 18:09

And the too old thing can be about women doing down other women too. Shame on any woman who does this.

hornetgirl · 27/11/2019 18:11

Love the dress

Loopytiles · 27/11/2019 18:12

How rude of your DH!

Looks good IMO!

SpiderCharlotte · 27/11/2019 18:13

There's no need for the 'controlling' comment. The OP has obviously asked his opinion and he's given it - which she clearly has no intention of listening to and nor would I. I hate this 0 - 100 bollocks from such a non issue.

fairislecable · 27/11/2019 18:14

It’s got nothing to do with age. That dress is lovely but very short.

It’s a shame as the whole outline looks unbalanced.

If you are happy with it then that’s the only judgment you need.

Yetanotherwinter · 27/11/2019 18:25

Way too short. You have a great figure. I just don’t think it looks very classy.

RockinHippy · 27/11/2019 18:27

Not at all, you have the legs & figure for it. It looks great with the thick tights. Age is just a number. There's always going to be the odd catty remark, but that's something those types will find any excuse for, so best ignored. The rest of us will think you look great.

EL8888 · 27/11/2019 18:29

I don’t think so! I’m also 39 and would wear it. Plus you also have great legs

chrisski33 · 27/11/2019 18:44

Wear what you want to wear! Your hubby has no right to say what you should wear or not but did he say it to wear it or did you ask him if he felt it was too short? Or is this thread just a thread to say "look at me look at me don't I look good in this dress!"

KiKiLou13 · 27/11/2019 18:49

Absolutely not! It looks gorgeous! And it's not like you are going bare legged! If you were 70 I might say a longer length would be better but at your age you certainly don't need to start dressing like an OAP! Besides, whatever you put on to wear, if you look in the mirror and YOU feel good, then go for it!

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