Yes, the essentials of life are definitely perfume, lipsticks, books, cats. Maybe cheese
I have also been MIA and lost my perfume mojo for a bit, but things are getting better and I have just done A Very Bad Thing Indeed to celebrate
and it wasn't even the half price deal
Have ordered a bottle of Babylon Sunset, have adored this since the lovely Green sent me a sample ages ago, I really cannot afford it but had a total fuck it moment 
For those of us with teenage boys who are being recruited into the cult Perfumistas in the making, may I suggest Truth or Dare? I know it sounds weird but my DS absolutely loves it and it smells amazing on him. And better than bloody Lynx 
Late to the blind buys talk, but I tend to BB samples unless something is very tempting or on offer. I love perfume for this though as, unlike lipsticks, you can always sell them on eBay and recoup some of your money.
Absolutely boiling here today, I love it. SOTD is the TF Amalfi one, I dithered between this and Avon Tahitian Holiday. Also think Rive Gauche is perfect hot weather perfume.
Funnily enough (is it you Judy that loves this?) my "cannot be bothered to properly choose" SOTD recently has been Chanel 19 which I have always been a bit meh about, but seems to have been perfect for the recent Spring/Summer yet very wet weather. It has really grown on me.
Hope everyone is enjoying glorious weather today!