Thank you all
your posts are very helpful and are keeping me from driving myself insane!
The move would still be in Europe,and and very close to the uk,but it won't be long , 18-24 months,maximum,and its a big step for dh,really good position, but it means we need to sell our house ASAP,we saw two properties that are good but they need a lot of work,really alot ! and he expects me to make a descion now! It's not like buying a dress!its a huge step,I don't want to decide on second best and regret it later!
and another issue which is what causing us all the distress,is schooling,dss is in an excellent school that is impossible to get in,and although he had a bit of difficulty at the start,he is doing really great now,if we move there is no way to grantee a place when we come back,and if we decide to go ahead and move we do need to leave by the beginning of the next school term!
We talked about wether we stay put,and he fly back and forth during weekends and and holidays,but two years is a long time! And he is against it completely,so either we move as a whole or stay where we are,And ATM he travels on a monthly basis ,and its really taking its toll on him,its a stress fuelled job,so if he keeps his current job,I really fear for his health! So this new job means less travels and a bit of stability,which to be honest I miss!
Sorry for the mammoth post,im sure I don't make sense!
Back to fashion now! 