To dread England loosing

[Soxy2154]

My DH is out tonight watching the game, I'm home praying England win tonight.
If England loose i know I will be in for a beating.

Oh no I am so sorry .

Jesus.
Can you leave your house and go somewhere safe? Or call the police?

The National Domestic Abuse Helpline are open 24/7 - tel:08082000247 0808 2000 247 please do not stay where you are not safe

Don’t sit there waiting ….
you got kids ???

That’s awful. You need to leave him. Nobody should have to put up with this. Is there anywhere you can go before he comes back?

Go somewhere else. Do you have children at home?

Are you home with children or home alone? Can you get out of the house and go to a neighbour, friend or family? Please don't feel embarrassed or ashamed of needing shelter from a violent abuser. Keep your phone with you and call 999 if you're scared 💐

Oh my love , is there anyway you can get in touch with women’s aid , or is there anywhere you could stay tonight xxx

Leave. Don’t stay and wait regardless of what happens with England. Go to your parents, a friend, the police station anywhere.

I do have children & sadly can't up and leave, I don't work at the moment and have no where to go.
My DH is a nasty piece of work and I've had this for years.

Even if England win ..please leave or get help now.

Call the police.

Police and women’s aid

Please leave now, do you have somewhere safe you can go to, even if it’s a hotel room? Don’t be there when he gets home. Ring 999 and say you aren’t safe.

Please get yourself and the kids out now. This is a tipping point now if you are posting on here

There is always somewhere to go, even if it is a refuge.

Right so go to a police station with black bags full of your stuff.

Get the fuck out now. It doesn't matter if they win or lose you need to get out of the relationship

Yes you can.

Get the children. Go to the police. Do it for your children..
Mothers get help

How can any of us help you? Is knowing you have MN enough?
Please please call the numbers above.

Please leave for your children sake’s

Hi everyone.

Thanks for your concern and support for the OP.

We wanted to share Mumsnet's Domestic Violence Support Webguide in case anyone reading this is affected by what's being discussed and would like some information or support.

No one should have to live in fear in their own home, and there is help available. Please do reach out if you need it.

Best wishes.
Faye
MNHQ 💐

Hey OP -
U OK ???

Hope you are okay @Soxy2154

You need to put something in place before the next match at the very least as we have a high chance of losing that one. But you shouldn’t be living in fear football or no football

Men like him will lift their hand as they'll validate it to themselves as a she deserved it
That's a grim life for the kids hearing mum getting beating and for yourself op.
It will leave it's mark on the kids for decades

I grew up in that environment I heard ,saw,and experienced violence to me as well.

I hope you’re ok OP.

Please do reach out for help. I know it might feel hopeless but you can get out and there is help available.