Xenophobia, homophonic, transphobia

[spstchmu]

Are you gonna do anything about it? Like, i know the line is that shoving the madness in the feminism board means it's not transphobia. And I know it's been done to death but I'm sick of it. It's not acceptable. Xenophobia, racism and homophobia also increasing.
And no. I won't leave. This is the biggest forum of its kind and it needs to represent and respect us all. And care that it's not.

It isn’t ‘transphobic’ to not want men, how ever they choose to present themselves, in women’s spaces.
Cannibal - The trans craze in schools is very much on the wane. I’m sure another social contagion will be on the way - ‘‘twas ever thus, sadly. From my experience all of the kids who were trans a few years ago are now through puberty and ‘back’ to being ‘she’. The were all unhappy and had other diagnoses (autism, largely) at the time and it is lovely to see them now so much happier, settled and more confident and thankfully they’ve avoided medical intervention (aka physical harm). How shocking that standing up for women’s rights makes young women ‘social pariahs’ in your world!

I beg to differ.
You apparently only notice the issue which concerns you.

People with a GRC got the right to marry members of the same sex years before single sex marriage, didn't see any of them fighting for gay rights back then. The T was added to LGB by Stonewall when the threat of funding drying up was on the horizon. You've been sold a lie.

And yet other gay people are furious about the ‘forced teaming’.

Quite.

Transphobia is not rife on this forum. I haven't read a single thread where anyone has said that transgender people shouldn't exist or shouldn't be allowed in workplaces or should be abused every time they step out in public.

What I have read, and have been very thankful to read, is people saying correctly that humans cannot change sex, and that even if someone thinks they have, no one else needs to go along with or agree to their delusion.

I've read comments which state, correctly, that transwomen are not women, they are men.

I've also read comments which agree that women only spaces should be for biological women only, not men.

None of those comments are transphobic in the slightest because they are facts and/or enshrined in law.

But you’re one person aren’t you? You’re simply denying that other women have entirely different experiences. Until men, and they are men, are prevented from all women’s ‘safe’ spaces, sports, dressing rooms, changing rooms, toilets or until women can be certain that when they attend gynae appointments, rape crisis centres and women’s refuges that the staff member isn’t a man masquerading as a woman, it will never be a ‘non issue’. That’s not transphobia.

I 100% agree. It includes this thread I see. I have been piled on for objecting to the obsessives taking over threads on all sorts of topics. I mean god forbid you mention M&S in any context. They arrive in droves to tel you off. I have had to hide the feminism board (which makes me sad) because of the rampant and unchecked transphobia.

As a lesbian, who has been called transphobic for not dating transwomen, I would like to see the T separated from the LGB. I know a lot of other gay, lesbian and bi people and the vast majority feel the same.

Biological fact isn’t transphobia! Sexuality is very different to gender identity.

Agree.

Go and look at the real world, and realise that it is such a tiny thing. Nobody is going about day to day caring about the genitalia of everyone around them.

You object to people discussing things on threads that you think shouldn't be discussed? On an open discussion board? Open to the whole world, on the internet?

Men and their behaviour is a worldwide global issue, yes.

The vast majority of the population are not this obsessed with the trans thing. It’s just places like here, but it is slowly being replaced by the illegal immigration stuff. So it is starting to die down.

The young people I work with may well use ‘correct’ pronouns (assuming you actually mean the pronouns a person wants you to use rather than accurate sex based ones) but they only do it because they don’t want to be told off. It’s not genuine.

A feeling does not amount to -phobia. It's like saying you are a cat, because I feel you are. It doesn't make it true. To expect to live in a world and demand our feelings don't get challenged or hurt is unrealistic and at it's worse, dangerous.

What is wild to me is that they deleted a post about people having BO for breaking talk guidelines, but kept one questioning if being trans is a mental illness.

If I queried whether those who havent had a proper wash before leaving the house ar mentally ill, would that remain? I mean a deterioration in personal care is often an indicator of mental illness.

The people who are obsessed with gentalia are usually "TRAs".

Most people just care about privacy, safety and fairness.

Wear what you want. Call yourself what you want. Respect others rights. Love who you eant (as long as both (or more) partoes consent). Accept that others have rights to.

I think if you strip away the labels, you will find the issue is male behaviour. Which women across the globe have every right to be obsessed with, being that it can end up so badly for women amd girls.

Where did you read that? What shared history? What culture? Are you saying all gay men behave in the same way as all lesbian women or all straight AGPs? I’d say that’s a classic case of stereotyping a whole range of people.

The issue is women with nothing better to do, sitting on forums like this and being whipped up into a frenzy about something that just doesn’t matter in real life.

Are you referring to yourself there dear?

Yet here you are...

And the occasional antisemitism and racism. But I’ve called that out before and reported it and it hasn’t always been taken down…for a site so large, they don’t have enough moderators, especially in the early hours. I agree with you, it’s not okay.

It is not ‘transphobic’ or ‘bigoted’ not to subscribe to gender ideology.

When you see it, report it.
If it is against talk guidelines it will be removed.