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Royal section full of hatred

147 replies

SpaceCandyCoconut · 11/01/2023 12:07

@MNHQ - almost the entire Royal section is becoming the equivalent of the Daily Mail comments section with so much bile and hate for M&H. I found the thread about her wedding dress particularly vindicative and nasty to read.

I'm all for free speech, but where does the line become crossed into targeted attack / hate? I think we're getting pretty close to be honest.

Yes I know I can hide the section - but that misses the point - the frenzy is still going on there. How can we (you, @MNHQ) work to tone down the temperature?

OP posts:
JaneJeffer · 12/01/2023 14:49

By all means state your 'opinions' if you must. But you can't then object to others challenging them, can you?
But you can object to others challenging Harry's statements?

JaneJeffer · 12/01/2023 14:50

Consider it an object lesson in hypocrisy.
Wow your hyperbole is off the scale.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 12/01/2023 14:54

I reserve the right to continue to see and understand the depth of the obsessional behaviour of some posters, and to challenge it where required

Get over yourself.

DogBowlsAreMyWeapon · 12/01/2023 15:01

… or write a book about it.

User787878787878 · 12/01/2023 16:48

JennyForeigner · 12/01/2023 13:36

Because I don't like bullies. I don't really care what drives you to set up however many username[number] accounts to sockpuppet your way around the Internet, spreading malice, or what need it fulfils in you.

But when I see hate I'm not going to hide it or hide from it. I'm going to call it out.

I've only got the one account. I couldn't think of a username. I'm not aware of my posts being considered bullying either. If you have concerns please do report to MNHQ.

JennyForeigner · 12/01/2023 17:04

Lol at the the pearl clutching from posters too apparently unnerved by their own behaviour to @ the person they are quoting.

Yes, I believe in calling out bad behaviour. Every time social abuse hits the headlines - from gamergate onwards - the same lines get rolled out. 'What do you care? She's a liar. She's a user. This is accountability. This is free speech. This is my fun and they deserve it.'

If you can't see a way to be better than that, I'm sad for you. But I have children, and I will not accept that this is acceptable public discourse.

User787878787878 · 12/01/2023 17:10

@JennyForeigner is that aimed at me? I am genuinely confused about why you seem to have an issue with me?

JaneJeffer · 12/01/2023 17:10

don't engage with me
Recollections may vary

JennyForeigner · 12/01/2023 17:13

User787878787878 · 12/01/2023 17:10

@JennyForeigner is that aimed at me? I am genuinely confused about why you seem to have an issue with me?

No actually, it was a reference to the posters above you, but feel free to claim victimhood if you enjoy it.

User787878787878 · 12/01/2023 17:13

I think I'm going to step away. I found the memes thread funny, as a bit of light relief and a welcome distraction from my mum's death. I'm quite upset to learn that apparently my username and posting on the RF threads means that other people think I'm a bully. I don't think MN is the place for me.

User787878787878 · 12/01/2023 17:16

JennyForeigner · 12/01/2023 17:13

No actually, it was a reference to the posters above you, but feel free to claim victimhood if you enjoy it.

I don't know why you are being so confrontational with me when I've been polite to you.

JaneJeffer · 12/01/2023 17:17

@User787878787878 sorry about your mum Flowers take no notice of that poster

SirChenjins · 12/01/2023 17:20

Honestly @User787878787878 , ignore that poster, they’re just background chatter.

MarshaBradyo · 12/01/2023 17:23

User787878787878 · 12/01/2023 17:13

I think I'm going to step away. I found the memes thread funny, as a bit of light relief and a welcome distraction from my mum's death. I'm quite upset to learn that apparently my username and posting on the RF threads means that other people think I'm a bully. I don't think MN is the place for me.

Flowers Don’t worry

No one thinks your username means you are all names with numbers

ImaginaryDragon · 12/01/2023 17:26

It is full of hate. It's no wonder this country is in the state it's in. Free speech is really freedom spew hate in most cases.

DogBowlsAreMyWeapon · 12/01/2023 17:28

@User787878787878 i know you turned me down the other day - but whenever you’re ready for a sandwich and a wank… 😉

I’m sorry to hear about your mum. 😔

@ImaginaryDragon it’s my truth and one should never back down from speaking one’s truth.

YourWinter · 12/01/2023 17:31

Harry has made far nastier comments publicly, about named individuals, with no anonymity. Save your anger.

ImaginaryDragon · 12/01/2023 17:36

DogBowlsAreMyWeapon · 12/01/2023 17:28

@User787878787878 i know you turned me down the other day - but whenever you’re ready for a sandwich and a wank… 😉

I’m sorry to hear about your mum. 😔

@ImaginaryDragon it’s my truth and one should never back down from speaking one’s truth.

Confused. Can you explain your quote?

SirChenjins · 12/01/2023 17:38

Which is fine, because your own truths and so called objective facts have equal status. Very Trumpesque.

DewinDwl · 12/01/2023 17:40

YourWinter · 12/01/2023 17:31

Harry has made far nastier comments publicly, about named individuals, with no anonymity. Save your anger.

Really? Many comments in the RF board are out-and-out insults, from people who don't know H or M and are not engaging with the topic, just dumping. Off the top of my head:

Twat
Manipulative
Annoying
Irritating
liar
Bully
Narcissist
psychopath
Sociopath
Uppity
difficult
Grifter
Gold-digger
Nasty
Mentally unwell
Thick / stupid / any synonym you want to add

Points about topics can be made without resorting to any of the above. I have seen many threads deleted for much less or for not being "in the spirit of the site". Clearly MM has a blind spot about Harry and Meghan, I wonder why?

SirChenjins · 12/01/2023 17:42

But they’re all posters’ truths 🤷‍♀️

ShrinesofGaiety · 12/01/2023 18:02

LetsDoThis2023 · 11/01/2023 12:22

I've blocked the RF threads op.

Same.

NeuroWasabi · 12/01/2023 18:26

OP I agree that the venom and vitriol on many of the royal threads is disturbing. It's hard to believe that the people speaking that way are probably middle aged women with kids. I've only ever seen/heard language like that from nasty, judgemental kids/teenagers or possibly conspiracy theorists.

DerangedViper · 12/01/2023 18:44

NeuroWasabi · 12/01/2023 18:26

OP I agree that the venom and vitriol on many of the royal threads is disturbing. It's hard to believe that the people speaking that way are probably middle aged women with kids. I've only ever seen/heard language like that from nasty, judgemental kids/teenagers or possibly conspiracy theorists.

That's quite an attack on MNetters

Have you been reporting the posts with unacceptable levels of venom and vitriol?

Because it's becoming a bit off a knee-jerk to say "it's all terrible in there" when the vast majority of it really isn't

SirChenjins · 12/01/2023 18:49

My goodness, you actually managed to shoehorn sweeping ageism into that hyperbolic post there @NeuroWasabi. You really should report posts with that level of venom and vitriol.