The lady whose waters broke at 18 weeks ...

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She delivered her baby at 28 weeks-ish ... I can't find her thread to see how her and baby are doing :( I posted on it, but can't see it in 'im on' and when I do a search it looks like it might have been deleted?

Can't stop thinking about this lady bless her! Can anyone help?

Ive just watched it and my heart is breaking for Nobby and her partner. It's clear their baby was so loved and so wanted.
Sleep tight baby Ollie x

Nobbly*

Poor Nobbly

This is so incredibly sad. I remember Nobbly's original thread but I didn't post on it as I had no experience of what she was dealing with.

I watched the OBEM episode last night and cried for Nobbly, her partner and poor little Ollie. I hope she sees this thread and gives MN the chance to offer her support through this.

I caught the end of obem last night (was on before program had recorded) and just saw picture of Ollie with name and dates and knew who this was. I was pregnant at same time as nobbly. if all had gone well with her pregnancy we would have been due just a few weeks apart. I followed her thread from day one. Read it every day and posted to tell her how well she was doing. When I heard she was a troll I felt deceived and silly for investing so much in someone who wasn't real. When I saw that picture on the tv last night I just burst into tears because this awful thing had really happened and and to top it off people on the internet who had previously supported her were saying not very nice things. I feel very angry for those who were/had been through similar and had posted and felt they been tricked when sharing their own painful stories. and I feel very angry and sad for nobbly who has been through such a darkly sad experience. I just pray she never saw this thread and that her and her dh will one day have the family that they hoped for. I agree with other pp who Said now is a good time to reflect that in these circumstances another thread should not be started to bash the original poster because if mnhq have got it wrong the consequences for the original poster are pretty devastating. This has really brought it home to me that we are all real people and should be mindful of the way we treat each other. tbh this has really put me off coming here.

Did Nobbly ever reply to HQ message? I wouldn't blame her if she didn't.

I don't know why but I still feel very sad about this.

Somebody said at the beginning of this thread how it was obvious Nobbly was a troll.

Your trolldar is clearly a bit shit .

Just a thought, but would it be possible to have Nobbly's thread reinstated? That way people won't continue to believe she was a troll.

If Nobbly and the OBEM episode are the same, the mum posted on OBEM facebook page (under the episode announcement) to thank the OBEM Team for their help getting them through a difficult time.

Just thought you would like to know that Nobbly wasn't left unsupported.

Toads - couldn't agree more - it's almost always the same people calling troll and polishing their trolldar sticks, when in actual fact what they are doing is kicking someone when they are so terribly down.

I'm glad to hear that Nobbly felt that she was supported by at least the OBEM team, if not by Mumsnet.