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Who else is fed up with swearing on MN?

498 replies

ByJingoes · 10/10/2011 16:36

I have been trying to have this discussion on another thread, but don't want to hijack it further.

I am thoroughly sick of excessive swearing on MN. I am sick of encountering posters with sweary names (not least because I have to hide MN as soon as the children come into the room).

MNHQ, could you please look at this again? Every time I mention this on threads, I am told that I have a cat's bum face (which is immensely irritating) and to eff off to Nethuns - yet I loathe the huggy/kissy/hunny stuff, and detest moderation. We are all adults and don't need to be censored. However, part of being an adult surely means having some consideration for other people too?

Here is Justine in May 2005:

"Hi all,
We've had a few complaints about obscene language on the boards. Our policy on this is that we would appreciate it if people would keep foul and abusive language to a minimum and that if you feel it necessary to swear to make your point then use asterisks please [...] we don't want to be over-prudish about this - we're not talking minor offenses here - and sometimes (parking attendant, gp receptionist annecdotes etc etc) we agree that nothing else but a swear word will do but it's a fair point that lots of members look at mumsnet with kids who may be early readers at their side and as the saying goes... less is more sometimes, so if you could use your discretion it would be much appreciated.

Ta very much."

That seems eminently sensible - but MN seems to have somehow slithered into a site for sweary people only.

Am I the only person who is utterly fed up with it?

OP posts:
FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 11/10/2011 13:28

I made the link but just because i have a silly sense of humour, I was not laughing AT the OP.

LadyEvilEyes · 11/10/2011 13:30

A bit of PARD around here people.
Thank you.
That is all.

PosiePetrifyingParker · 11/10/2011 13:30

Whenever has a thread that whines about swearing not ended up with lots of swearing???

Any twatty declaration gets the same....especially when asking a whole forum to change the way they post to suit the delicate among us. I was told off by a poster for saying 'ffs' because it was rude and they didn't want to engage.

TBH I find the whole notion of requesting a forum dance to the jingle on one far ruder than the odd fuckity twat wank.

PosiePetrifyingParker · 11/10/2011 13:31

so I skip words.....Shock

AitchTwoOh · 11/10/2011 13:32

so your was for whose benefit on the thread?

tbh fanj i am not hugely convinced by the BJ as particular insult line, just because we do shorten on here etc, but you must admit that wasn't your finest hour, surely? i can see soupy's point there.

VampiresWearBlackVelvet · 11/10/2011 13:33

Fanjo - that goes without saying mate. Don't feel the need to explain yourself.

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 11/10/2011 13:34

my was just meant to convey an immature giggle at the rude word. I was laughing at myself if anything.

I genuinely wasn't thinking of, or having a go at the OP. Sorry if it looked like that, it 100% did not cross my mind.

PosiePetrifyingParker · 11/10/2011 13:34

More offensive than BJ was snicker....isn't it snigger?

And I thought BJ was funny....a good language slip is always funny.

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 11/10/2011 13:35

x-posted. I agree, Vampires, it's a bit harsh for me to have to explain myself. But clearly it must be needed here. Maybe people haven't seen "wayne's world"

lemonbalm · 11/10/2011 13:35

Never apologise, never explain.

AitchTwoOh · 11/10/2011 13:35

posie, she asked if anyone else felt the same as her and, amidst the piss-taking, actually plenty of people said that they do. it's really not just one person. anyway, i don't get the 'one person' thing. all OPs are started by one person.

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 11/10/2011 13:35

no it was deliberately "snicker"..see Wayne's World comment.

PosiePetrifyingParker · 11/10/2011 13:35

oops, thread is getting serious.

Previous post was a joke.

Fanjo. This is an adult forum, you can make funny quips about precious posters if their initials are BJ.

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 11/10/2011 13:36

anyway not feeling the need to be up in front of a jury explaining my silly but innocent comment, and especially the fact I can actually spell "snigger" Hmm

BupcakesandHaunting · 11/10/2011 13:36

Oooh I could murder a Snicker.

PosiePetrifyingParker · 11/10/2011 13:36

Bugger.

[party on][weak]

AitchTwoOh · 11/10/2011 13:36

definitely came across that way to me, fanjo, good to hear it wasn't meant that way.

PosiePetrifyingParker · 11/10/2011 13:37

( I was joking about snicker...Blush, sorry trying to lighten the mood)

lemonbalm · 11/10/2011 13:37

"One person" who is to be ridiculed, because she is a BlowJob. Hmm

FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 11/10/2011 13:37

sorry Posie, not your fault, others had taken it seriously so i thought you had. Smile

PosiePetrifyingParker · 11/10/2011 13:38

Bupcakes would you like a mar or packet or malteser with that snicker?

SayGhoulNowSayWitch · 11/10/2011 13:38
FanjoForTheMuahahammaries · 11/10/2011 13:38

lemonbalm. I wasnt ridiculing HER.

It clearly didnt come across that way to everyone Aitch.

Have you got a gavel there? Not appreciating being forced to explain myself.

PosiePetrifyingParker · 11/10/2011 13:39

[s'alright] Clearly a few people have a soh failure, twas a good quip, and I did snicker!!

lemonbalm · 11/10/2011 13:39

No, of course you wouldn't want to have to explain yourself.

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